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Tag Archives: Self Esteem

Pod #75: Tapping For The Power Of Identity w/ Brad Yates

February 22, 2012 by Gene Monterastelli

I want you to imagine you are meeting someone for the very first time. They know nothing about you. You have to describe yourself to that person, but you can only use one word descriptions. Which words would you use? Father, wife, grandson, ...

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Filed Under: Podcast Tagged With: Brad Yates, Identity, Premium Member, Self Esteem, TapAlong Member

TapAlong: Please See How Much I Am Putting Myself Last!

December 19, 2011 by Gene Monterastelli

I love helping other people out. I think I am good at it and I know that I enjoy it. I also know that others have noticed that I am good at helping people. I have personally and professionally been recognized for doing so. It is part of who I am and ...

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Filed Under: Tap Along Tagged With: Love, Others, Premium Member, Self Esteem, TapAlong Member

Tap Along #23A: You Are Worth A Better/Easier Life

December 5, 2011 by Gene Monterastelli

Often we don't feel comfortable making our own lives easier or better. We think, “Others have it so much harder than I do. A good life is only possible if I work very hard and struggle for it. I have wasted good opportunities before so why should ...

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Filed Under: Tap Along Tagged With: Easy With Self, Love, Premium Member, Self Esteem, TapAlong Member

TapAlong #15A Accepting Compliments

October 10, 2011 by Gene Monterastelli

One of the things I have struggled with over the years is accepting compliments. They made me feel uncomfortable. They made me feel judged. They made me feel like I needed to point out the things that were wrong with me. Over time I have learned ...

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Filed Under: Tap Along Tagged With: Compliments, Premium Member, Self Esteem, TapAlong Member

TapAlong #12A: Seeking Attention

September 19, 2011 by Gene Monterastelli

"It is healthier to recognize we are desperate for attention than to deny we are. " R. Hudson We all want attention. We want attention from our loved ones. We want attention from new friends. We want attention from people in power. It is ok to want ...

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Filed Under: Tap Along Tagged With: Attention, Premium Member, Self Esteem, TapAlong Member

Keeping the Long View – How To Understand The Healing Process With Tapping/EFT

August 6, 2011 by Gene Monterastelli

photo by Wally Gobetz Why it is hard to stay focused on one issue over time with Tapping/EFT? I hear from clients all the time that they have a hard time staying focused on an issue that takes more than one session to knock out, or as they work ...

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Filed Under: Sessions Tagged With: Awareness, Emotions, Peace, Practitioner, Self Esteem

TapAlong #4: Changing How We See Ourselves and the World

July 29, 2011 by Gene Monterastelli

A few years ago I was on retreat with Russ Hudson. At the beginning of the three days he said, "Who I think I am will die in this process. What I lose is my illusions." Often the transformation process isn't about becoming something new but rather ...

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Filed Under: Tap Along Tagged With: Free TapAlong, Premium Member, Self Esteem, TapAlong Member, Transform

TapAlong #3: Dreaming + Work = Progress and Transformation

July 22, 2011 by Gene Monterastelli

[Every Monday a new free tap-along audio is added to TappingQandA.com. Make sure you check out the entire Tap-Along Archive. To be able to download these audios comercial free (with a printable script) visit the Tap-Along Premium ...

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Filed Under: Tap Along Tagged With: Dreams, Free TapAlong, Premium Member, Self Esteem, TapAlong Member, Work

Pod #63: Self Love With Brad Yates

July 2, 2011 by Gene Monterastelli

Doing this interview was particularly special to me. My guest Brad Yates was the person who first introduced me to Tapping/EFT. In this spirited conversation we talk about the importance of self-love, the obstacles to loving ourself, and what we can ...

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Filed Under: Podcast Tagged With: Brad Yates, Easy With Self, Love, Premium Member, Self Esteem, TapAlong Member

Pod #60: EFT for Self Acceptance w/ Steve Wells

June 4, 2011 by Gene Monterastelli

One of the biggest blocks for beginning tappers is using the setup phrase, "Even though...I love and accept myself." Sometimes we just don't believe it. Sometimes it is painful to think of how we don't love and accept ourselves, and because of this ...

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Filed Under: Podcast Tagged With: Accept, Resistance, Self Esteem, Steve Wells

Pod #52: Self-Compassion w/ Rod Sherwin

February 2, 2011 by Gene Monterastelli

When I approached my friend and fellow practitioner Rod Sherwin about what topic he wanted to talk about in a podcast interview he recommended a conversation about self-compassion. At the time of the interview I was unfamiliar with the word. ...

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Filed Under: Podcast Tagged With: Compassion, Love, Premium Member, Rod Sherwin, Self Esteem, TapAlong Member

My Favorite Thing My Clients Say During a Session & How You Can Use It To Accelerate Your Healing

January 29, 2011 by Gene Monterastelli

photo by Karen Eliot I love working with clients. I have learned so much from them. When working with them my favorite thing for them to say is, "I know this has nothing to do with it, but…" Before we get to that, let's take a step back. ...

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Filed Under: Tools Tagged With: History, Practitioner, Self Esteem

Is It Weird If I Say “Is it weird if I . . . ?”

January 19, 2011 by Gene Monterastelli

[In this series we examine the importance of the words we use and how changing our vocabulary can change our mind, thereby giving us opportunity for transformation. More articles can be found in this series @ Tools: Words] ...

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Filed Under: Tools Tagged With: Self Esteem, Words

FEAR! – Why It Exists (part 1 of 2)

January 12, 2011 by Gene Monterastelli

Where do I start with unbridled fear? photo by Sasha Wolff I recently asked the members of Tapping Q & A Facebook Group what topic I should spend some time writing about. The first response back was "Where do I start with ...

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Filed Under: Q&A Tagged With: Fear, Limiting Beliefs, Self Esteem

Why It Is Good To Be Selfish

June 28, 2010 by Gene Monterastelli

[In this series we examine the importance of the words we use and how changing our vocabulary can change our mind giving us opportunity for transformation. More articles can be found in this series @ Tools: Words] photo by ...

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Filed Under: Tools Tagged With: Love, Self Esteem, Selfish, Words

Using The Ways Others Aggravate Us As A Tool To Self-Healing

March 26, 2010 by Gene Monterastelli

Here is a tweet that I love: @robpurdie i am the things i don't like about other people. Sometimes this is a really hard fact to admit, but I know in my own life it is true. When I am really bent out of shape by someone else's actions it is ...

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Filed Under: Tools Tagged With: Forgiveness, Others, Self Aware, Self Esteem

Relationship To Food (6 of 10)

March 13, 2010 by Gene Monterastelli

[Note: This is part 6 of a 10 part series on using EFT/Tapping for weight release with a new article or podcast being added every 10 days. The complete series can be found @ weight release series.] photo by Carl ...

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Filed Under: Tools Tagged With: Food, Phrases, Physical Response, Self Esteem, Weight Loss, Weight Release Series

Pod #26: Weight and Emotion w/ Catherine Poole (part 3 of 10)

January 25, 2010 by Gene Monterastelli

[Note: This is part 3 of a 10 part series on using EFT/Tapping for weight release with a new article or podcast being added every 10 days. The complete series can be found @ weight release series.] The extra weight that we hold is often times ...

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Filed Under: Podcast Tagged With: Catherine Poole, Emotions, Health, Premium Member, Self Esteem, TapAlong Member, Weight Loss, Weight Release Series

You want me to think about what?!?

September 10, 2009 by Gene Monterastelli

photo by wsilver As I write this it is a crisp morning here in Baltimore, Maryland. My neighborhood is abuzz during the day with the return of the university students for the fall semester. Just last week I put my air conditioning unit into ...

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Filed Under: Notes Tagged With: Craving, Family, Health, Holiday, Self Esteem, Stress, Weight Loss

Top 9 Articles/Topics

August 25, 2009 by Gene Monterastelli

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Filed Under: Resources Tagged With: Abundance, Body, Don't Know What Words To Say, Emotions, Fear, Focus, Forgiveness, Future, Health, How To, Pain, Phrases, Physical Response, Relaxation, Resistance, Self Esteem, Surrogate

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