Here is something that will make you laugh. It is one of my favorite videos about healing and transformation.
Here are a few of my reflections on what you can learn from this silliness and something you can do right away in response.
Here is something that will make you laugh. It is one of my favorite videos about healing and transformation.
Here are a few of my reflections on what you can learn from this silliness and something you can do right away in response.
I would like to introduce you to someone. Look at this cute little pumpkin!
That’s me when I was little. (I’m the one on the left.)
I know! It’s hard to believe. No surprise that one of my nicknames growing up was “Whitey” because my hair was so blond it was almost white.
For the last two weeks I have been spending lots of time with this little guy.
AND what I mean by that is I’ve been focusing my morning tapping sessions on working with myself at this young age.
I have been:
But mostly I have just been showering him with love!
In every one of these sessions I have cried at some point.
It all starts somewhere
The reason I have been spending so much time with my younger self is because of the way the human brain works.
The reason hypnosis works is because when you are being hypnotized, your brain changes states. It goes from beta waves (awake) to alpha waves (relaxed) to theta waves (deep hypnosis). In the theta state we can create deep change and transformation as we are able to rewrite what is in the subconscious mind. We are able to learn and change quickly.
Before the age of seven we spend almost all of our time in either the alpha or theta brain wave state.
It makes sense that our brain is in hyper learning mode at the ages we are doing the most learning.
The lessons that were never intended to be lessons
Because we are so open to learning at this point in our lives, we take everything we learn as true.
On one hand, it is great that we can learn so quickly at this time in our lives.
On the other hand, we can see how quickly this can go wrong.
For example:
And the list goes on.
Even when we are surrounded by well-meaning, loving adults it is possible to learn the “wrong” lessons when we are very young and don’t understand the world.
At this particular stage in our lives, the lessons we learn are treated by our brains as truths, rather than beliefs that can be questioned.
The subconscious gets its way
Because the mind works this way it can cause frustration and pain.
It puts us in a situation where our conscious mind can see the world through the eyes of a thoughtful adult, while the subconscious mind sees the world through the lessons we learned when we were young.
AND (and this is a big and) the subconscious mind always wins.
Have you noticed how seldom New Year’s resolutions work? That’s because they are an act of the conscious mind trying to change the beliefs of the subconscious mind.
I’ve been spending a lot of time with the little guy above because I am trying to uncover and understand all the lessons he learned that no longer serve me.
Wanting to change is not enough
If we truly want to change our lives, we need to do more than a little tapping here and there. We also need to change the beliefs we have about ourselves and the world.
I created the ID Transformation Retreat with exactly that in mind. I want you to be able to participate in an experience where you can uncover and unpack the beliefs that are keeping you stuck and holding you back from living a life you love.
This event will be different from most of the events I run. Usually my emphasis is on teaching tools and techniques that you can use later when tapping on your own or with clients.
At the ID Transformation Retreat we will be doing HEAPS of tapping!
Because this isn’t about learning, it is about healing.
Don’t get me wrong, you will still learn a lot, but that is not the main aim of the event.
Here’s how the ID Transformation Retreat will work:
Before the event you will receive a series of short videos from me. Each video will teach you a tapping tool you can use to do deep work on your own. Sharing these ahead of the event means I won’t have to spend as much time teaching during the retreat. It will take you less than an hour to watch all the videos AND doing so ahead of the event is not a prerequisite. Instead, they are designed to set the table for those who are interested in the hows and whys of the tools we’ll be using together at the retreat.
During the retreat we’ll unpack known and unknown limiting beliefs and we will transform and heal them. I will be tapping with volunteers one-on-one, we are going to do loads of group tapping, and there will be a chance to learn from the insights and transformation of others.
After the event I am going to hold a bonus session where you can ask any questions that arise after the event, and we’ll do more tapping.
You have seven days to listen to the replays so that if you can’t join us live, you can still participate AND even if you are there live, you can tap to the sessions again and again.
All the details
Here are the details:
Notice that the bonus session is at 8 PM on Friday night. I planned this especially for those who live in Asia, Australia, and New Zealand who don’t want to stay up all night to tap with me on Friday 23rd. Everyone is welcome to join the bonus session, but I wanted to make sure I did something special for those on the other side of the world.
The ID Transformation Retreat only costs $247.
That’s less than the cost of working with me for an hour AND you will get a full day of transformation for that price.
You can sign up here: http://idtransformationretreat.com/
Limited Space
I want this to be as personal of an experience as possible, so I am limiting registration to just 100 people. Once 100 people have registered, registration will close.
Don’t miss out: http://idtransformationretreat.com/
If you have any questions, reply to this note and I get right back to you.
I really hope you can join us. It is going to be an amazing day of healing and transformation.
Gene
Over the last few months I have been doing a lot of work on restructuring my business and reorganizing all of my content. This is a consequence of all the ways in which Tapping Q & A has changed and how I have evolved personally.
To make it easier for everyone to find the types of content that they are looking for I have created two new podcasts in addition to the Tapping Q & A Podcast.
Tapping Q & A Podcast: The Tapping Q & A Podcast will continue to focus on tapping. Its main focus will be on slightly more advanced and provocative tapping concepts. There will be a lot less tapping 101 content and much more on mastering the art of delivering tapping in a more effective way.
First Action, Best Action: One of the types of work I enjoy the most is helping people to eliminate self-sabotage so that they can take the most valuable actions over and over again and achieve their goals.
In doing this work I have come to realize that taking the best actions isn’t just about organizing your to-do list well or having the right systems in place. It is also about changing the resource state that you are in when taking these actions. What I mean by “resource state” is whatever is impacting the resources we have at any given moment. This can include energy, focus, emotions we are feeling, and physical pain. If the first action we take is about changing our resource state, then all of the action we take after that will be better.
Thus the title First Action Best Action. Make your first action about changing your resource state for the better, which will allow you to take your best actions for the rest of the day.
The show is published four times a week. Most episodes are less than ten minutes long and will teach you one thing to help you get your day started on the right foot.
You can hear the full origin story of the podcast in episode 1.
You can subscribe to the show here: Apple Podcast | Spotify | Google Podcast | Amazon Music | Audible | RSS
Our Lady of Podcast: The second new podcast has nothing to do with tapping, productivity, or being more efficient in your day. Instead it is a personal spiritual reflection.
In each of the show’s episodes I explore one of the titles of the Virgin Mary, such as Our Lady of Confidence, Cause of Joy, Mirror of Justice. Every episode is made up of three parts. First, I explore the virtue of the title and what it means. Second, I explore how I need this virtue in my life. Third, I reflect on how I am called to live that virtue out in my daily life.
This is a very personal podcast. To be honest, I am totally OK if no one but my mom listens to the show because it has been a vehicle for such valuable personal growth for me. Each episode takes around 20 hours of my time to produce, as I grapple with the content and try to wrap my mind around what I feel about it.
The first season is 10 episodes long, published approximately every two weeks.
I have written a book called “Prayer” to go along with the show. You can download a free copy here: https://ourladyofpodcast.com/ambassador/
Subscribe to the show in: Spotify | Google Podcasts | Apple Podcasts
Please let me know if you have any questions about any of the podcasts.
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Last summer I was on a second or third date. As we were (illegally) drinking wine in the park, my date said to me, “We have to talk about your confidence. I want to know all about it.”
I raised an eyebrow of concern.
She quickly said, “No, no, don’t get me wrong. I’m not calling you conceited. You just have this ease and confidence about you that is appealing and it’s something I am a bit jealous of.”
To be honest, I was a little taken aback.
In my professional life I am quite clear that I am confident in most situations. Even if I’m not 100% certain of what is going on, or if I will be successful, I do know who I am professionally (for good and bad) and I’m comfortable with that.
As for my personal life, that wasn’t always the case. I found my way to tapping over 15 years ago when I was looking for a way to manage my acute social anxiety. At that time I couldn’t answer my phone or ask for help in a store.
I was anything but confident.
AND now, fifteen years later, here I was being complimented for my confidence in a social situation.
Personally, I wouldn’t call it confidence. Instead I describe it as being comfortable in my own skin. For me, that means knowing what I am good at and what I’m not. I know what I enjoy and what I like to avoid. I have a sense of what other people think about me, and I have a clear understanding of whose opinion matters to me.
Having this sort of understanding about yourself allows you to move through the world with more ease. It is not that I am confident, but I am comfortable. Feeling comfortable makes it so much easier to show up as my authentic and imperfect self.
At this point in my life, that’s how I feel most of the time. Not just professionally as I did in the past, but in all settings.
The combination of self-acceptance and self-knowledge is another way of expressing being comfortable in our own skin. Being able to know and accept myself as I am is the most important skill, trait, or attribute that I have. (I’m not sure what is the right word there.)
Self-acceptance just makes life easier.
In this month’s Art of Delivery Monthly class we are going to cover self-acceptance and being comfortable in our own skin.
You will learn:
Just like every other month there will be teaching, a demonstration of the tools I am teaching, your chance to try them out in a small group, and answers to every question you have (even the ones that are about tapping, but off topic).
This month’s classes are scheduled for:
You can attend either or both classes AND you receive a recording of both classes regardless which one you show up to. Some people can’t make the live classes and just watch the replays.
The class only costs $37 (they generally run about two hours) OR you can save $10. For only $27/month you can attend as many classes as you like, and you can cancel any time.
Often people ask “Is it OK if I sign up for this month, pay $27, and then cancel to avoid rebilling?” The answer is yes, you are more than welcome to do that if you like.
You can find full details on the program and sign up here: ArtOfDeliveryMonthly.com
Let me If you have any questions,
Gene
Back in November and December I conducted interviews with 17 transformational masters that ultimately turned into the Tapping Success Academy.
Something interesting happened over the course of those interviews…
Each one was just between me and my guest. None of the guests knew what the other guests would be talking about or even who else was involved.
Nevertheless, something magical happened!
It was almost as if everyone I interviewed was attuned to what was said in the other interviews. Somehow the topics and ideas from one interview meshed gracefully with the next, like perfect little puzzle pieces working together.
Of course this didn’t happen because of magic or by random coincidence. The reason the conversations fit together so neatly is because there are known fundamentals of healing and transformation that can be combined in a repeatable process.
Knowing the fundamentals allows us to use them over and over again to get more out of our tapping (and any other transformational tools we use).
After listening to close to 20 hours of interviews I was able to distill the list down to ten fundamentals about healing and transformation.
I would love to share these fundamentals with you so that you can get more out of your tapping each and every time you tap.
That’s why I am offering a free zoom masterclass in which I will share:
I am offering this free Zoom masterclass twice. You can attend on either Tuesday, March 16th at 8 PM Eastern US time or Sunday, March 21st at 12 noon Eastern US time.
(You can even attend both events if you like, but you will have to sign up for both sessions.)
The masterclass is free OR you can choose to support an amazing cause.
The masterclass itself is free BUT if you make a $7 contribution when you sign up, you will get access to the recording of the class afterwards and all of the money will go towards supporting small business owners around the world through Kiva.
When you reach the sign-up page there is a default $7 charge. If you are not in a position to make a donation and would like to attend free of charge, just update the 7 to a 0 and complete your registration.
You can sign up for either (or both) sessions here: https://lu.ma/genedavid
If you have any questions about the event, all you need to do is hit reply to this note.
I hope to see you there,
Gene
PS: A special note if you live outside North America. On March 14th North America will switch to daylight savings time, while it doesn’t happen in most of the rest of the world until March 28th. This means the time zones might be slightly off what you are used to.
You can find your local time for Tuesday, March 16th here: https://www.timeanddate.com/worldclock/converter.html?iso=20210317T000000&p1=4826
And for Sunday, March 21st here: https://www.timeanddate.com/worldclock/converter.html?iso=20210321T160000&p1=4826