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Tag Archives: Phrases

Living Up To My Calling

August 18, 2009 By Gene Monterastelli 2 Comments

photo by pensiero One of the things I find so enjoyable about my work is the type of clients I get to work with. Many of them are motivated to become, for lack of a better description, their 'higher self'. Based on their background and belief ...

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Filed Under: Sessions Tagged With: Awareness, Calling, God, Phrases, Vocation

Struggling To Get Tapping/EFT To Work

August 17, 2009 By Gene Monterastelli 1 Comment

I know Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT/EvEFT) and tapping works, but for some reason there are a few issues that I can't seem to make any progress with at all. Do you have any advice for jump-starting progress on a stubborn issue? photo by ...

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Filed Under: Q&A Tagged With: Don't Know What Words To Say, How To, Phrases

Tapping For Poker

June 20, 2009 By Gene Monterastelli Leave a Comment

photo by Christian Fortier Some people aren’t comfortable with the idea of gambling, but my experience working with a professional poker player demonstrated how our emotions can override our logic, how this can be disastrous, and how easy it is ...

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Filed Under: Sessions Tagged With: Performance, Phrases, Poker

Pod #12: How Our Emotions Serve Us

June 14, 2009 By Gene Monterastelli 1 Comment

This week’s podcast deals with two of the most common questions I receive from clients and readers. First, we look at how negative emotions like anger, frustration, jealousy, and sadness can serve us. Second, we cover how to come up with tapping ...

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Filed Under: Podcast Tagged With: Anger, Audio, Emotions, Frustration, How To, Phrases, Premium Member, Sadness, TapAlong Member

Being able to say “No.”

May 26, 2009 By Gene Monterastelli 1 Comment

Sometimes the hardest word to say is “no”. We want to be helpful. We want to give. We don’t want to be seen as selfish. We want to be asked again in the future. There are so many reasons to say “yes”. But there are also many good reasons to say ...

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Filed Under: Tap Along Tagged With: Forgiveness, no, Peace, Phrases, yes

Tapping For Learning and Trying New Things (part 2)

May 13, 2009 By Gene Monterastelli Leave a Comment

Can I use meridian tapping (EvEFT) to help me learning new things? photo by Steven S. In part 1 of the series ("Attitude About Learning") we looked at the way our beliefs (conscious and subconscious) can prevent us from learning ...

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Filed Under: Q&A Tagged With: How To, Learn, Phrases, Work

EFT/Tapping For Parents with Autistic (ASD) and Special Needs Children

April 15, 2009 By Gene Monterastelli 5 Comments

I know EFT can be a very powerful tool to help with getting my emotions under control. My daughter was just diagnosed as being on the autism spectrum and I am just a ball of emotions. I don’t know where to start. What can I tap on? Over the ...

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Filed Under: Tap Along Tagged With: Autism (ASD), Kids, Parent, Phrases

Pod #4: Dispositions About Healing (from Radio EFT w/ M. Price)

March 26, 2009 By Gene Monterastelli Leave a Comment

Have you ever wondered what an Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT/EvEFT) practitioner is thinking during a session and on what basis they decide what to do next? In this interview with Michele Price I give some insight into my thought process and the ...

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Filed Under: Podcast Tagged With: Audio, Awareness, How To, Phrases, Practitioner, Premium Member, TapAlong Member, Teleclass, Thanksgiving

God’s Love

March 4, 2009 By Gene Monterastelli 2 Comments

[Note: Please note most of the articles at EFT Q & A are written from a very general point of view so they are accessible to the largest audience possible. This article is a little different. The topic came up while e-mailing back and forth with ...

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Filed Under: Tap Along Tagged With: God, Love, Phrases

Sadness

February 26, 2009 By Gene Monterastelli Leave a Comment

Sadness can be one of the hardest emotions to use Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT/EvEFT) for. It just doesn’t do it justice to tap on the phrase, “I feel sad.”1 Somehow the word sad doesn’t encompass all that goes along with our feelings because ...

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Filed Under: Tap Along Tagged With: Emotions, Phrases, Sadness

When Our Change Affects Others

February 5, 2009 By Gene Monterastelli Leave a Comment

I love EFT and use it a lot. It’s been very helpful with small emotional issues and simple physical pains. But when it comes to bigger issues I have a concern. I’m afraid that if I change the person I am I will hurt the people I love. Do you have any ...

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Filed Under: Q&A Tagged With: Awareness, Emotions, Fear, How To, Love, Phrases, Resistance

Journaling

January 26, 2009 By Gene Monterastelli 2 Comments

photo by Luigi Anzivino A number of studies have indicated that the simple act of writing down what we are thinking and worrying about takes some of the charge out of the emotions. Dragging the thoughts into the light of day helps us to see ...

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Filed Under: Tools Tagged With: Awareness, Don't Know What Words To Say, Phrases

One Issue That Is Really Three or Four Issues

January 22, 2009 By Gene Monterastelli 1 Comment

I am dealing with homework issues and tantrums with my 8 year-old daughter. Parenting her really takes all my energy. It seems I spend more time battling with her than enjoying her. How can I approach this issue? photo by Kathryn ...

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Filed Under: Q&A Tagged With: Kids, Love, Phrases, Surrogate

Overwhelmed By How Much Healing I Need

January 15, 2009 By Gene Monterastelli 1 Comment

In the article Stages of Awareness I talk about how we move through the healing process. In stage one we are going through life unaware of what is going on internally. In stage two we start the investigation process. This stage can be the most ...

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Filed Under: Tap Along Tagged With: Phrases, Stress

I Don’t Deserve Healing

January 5, 2009 By Gene Monterastelli 4 Comments

One of the biggest struggles in our process of growing and changing is the fact that we don’t often believe that we deserve healing. We believe: We have too much We have done too much wrong It is too late Sometimes it is just a deep ache ...

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Filed Under: Tap Along Tagged With: Forgiveness, Health, Peace, Phrases

After A Powerful EFT Session

December 26, 2008 By Gene Monterastelli Leave a Comment

I have found EFT to be a very powerful tool. I have used it to clean up a number of deep emotional issues, but have noticed a number of unusual sensations after doing a session. Sometime I am really tired after a session, while other times I feel a ...

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Filed Under: Q&A Tagged With: Awareness, How To, Phrases, Tired

Peace (Personal and World)

December 26, 2008 By Gene Monterastelli 1 Comment

During the holiday season we are re-reminded that it is important to give thanks for the peace in our lives, homes, and world. We are also given the chance to consider the peace we long for. Please take some time this week and tap on these phrase to ...

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Filed Under: Tap Along Tagged With: Peace, Phrases

Using EFT to Give Thanks!

November 27, 2008 By Gene Monterastelli 5 Comments

I always seem to be using EFT for the things that go wrong in my life or the things I want to change. Does it do any good to tap on things that are going right and if so how would I do this? photo by Scott Ableman Emotional Freedom ...

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Filed Under: Q&A Tagged With: Abundance, Phrases, Thanksgiving

Using EFT In Tough Times

November 27, 2008 By Gene Monterastelli 1 Comment

Everywhere you turn there seems to be bad news. It’s hard to be hopeful for the future when all you hear is doom and gloom. How can I use EFT to lift my mood and make it possible to thrive in these troubled times? [Note: This article is by Chip ...

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Filed Under: Q&A Tagged With: Abundance, Guest Author, Phrases

Don’t Know How To Forgive Myself

November 21, 2008 By Gene Monterastelli Leave a Comment

What is the best procedure a person can take to learn how to forgive one’s self? I need to forgive myself desperately but don’t know how! The question of forgiveness comes up a lot with the clients I work with. In the article Forgiveness Equals ...

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Filed Under: Q&A Tagged With: Forgiveness, Peace, Phrases, Thanksgiving

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