There is a difference between filling your time with tasks and doing the tasks that are most important. As a way of keeping ourselves from doing the things we don't want to do we often we find ways to fill our time with tasks to keep us busy. In ...
Last month I attended a conference as a delegate, which is not something I do often. I attend around 20 conferences a year as a speaker and only one or two as an audience member. I loved the conference and learned a lot, but there were a number of ...
Something interesting happens when families get together where the adult children fall right back into the roles they had when they were 13 years old. (At least that is what happens in my family.) This happens not only when a whole family comes ...
A few weeks ago I was at a conference in which Daniel Pink was talking about the sales process. One of the stories he talked about was a door to door brush salesman. He wasn't talking about someone from some bygone era. He was talking about a man ...
When it comes to using EFT effectively I think that Jondi Whitis is one of the best. She is insightful, deliberate, and so compassionate. (She is also a great trainer if you are looking to up your tapping game.) Every year she hosts a wonderful ...
I love receiving questions from my listener and readers. They help me to understand what the community needs and how I can best serve you. You can always ask a question here. The question I get more than any other is "What are the right tapping ...
Good morning, Last week I was having dinner with a friend I’ll call "Sally" at a place that serves the most amazing chicken and waffles. As we were enjoying dinner she explained that she was having a really hard time. She was in the middle ...
Over the last few years I have noticed a pattern with a number of my clients. It would play out something like this... Client would come to me with an issue We would work to find the root cause They would have relief for a few weeks The ...
(Today's podcast is sponsored by PRM. Click the link to get 20% off your order.) One of the reasons that EFT is so appealing is that it can be easily combined with other tools and modalities. In fact I know few people who do just EFT. The problem ...
A few weeks ago in When You Explain Cause And Effect Wrong It Makes Your Life Harder I started with: When I am listening to my clients talk about their issues I am not just listening for the meaning of what they are sharing, but I am also ...
This week's podcast sponsored by Pain Relief Miracle. One of the biggest mistakes I see people make with tapping is not spending enough time on an issue to make sure that it is completely cleared. Because tapping brings relief so quickly in the ...
I am always humbled at how willing my clients are to share some of the most private parts of their lives. Once we have established a trusting relationship, during sessions I hear it all. And that’s a really positive thing because it makes it easier ...
We know that when we are trying to make a change but not taking the required action we need to find out what is behind our resistance. We can ask ourselves what the penalties are for trying, for failing, and for succeeding. But sometimes these ...
When I am listening to my clients talk about their issues I am not just listening for the meaning of what they are sharing, but I am also listening to the very specific words they are using. The words we use to describe something will impact the ...
When working with clients I have noticed that people often believe change is possible and they believe EFT is the tool that will help them to make that change...but they don't believe it is possible for them. They tell me stories of how they have ...
Dealing with unwanted criticism is hard. It’s painful in the moment because the attack feels personal, and it often is. After the fact it tends to fester and gnaw at us. It would be great to believe that we are able to see past the criticism and ...
Learning EFT can be very exciting at first. Tapping is so easy. Anyone can do it! It can be done anywhere! It seems to work for everything! You download podcasts, tapping scripts, and ebooks. You attend online seminars and sign up for ...
As much as we would like to believe in ourselves, our actions, and our future there are times when that is really difficult to do. We can be filled with self-doubt, feeling like we have squandered our opportunities, or that we have made so many ...
If you type "setting goals" into Google it will return over 450 million results. Study after study has shown how crucial setting goals can be to progress. But goals aren't enough. They can get you moving down the right path, but we need more to take ...