A few weeks ago in When You Explain Cause And Effect Wrong It Makes Your Life Harder I started with: When I am listening to my clients talk about their issues I am not just listening for the meaning of what they are sharing, but I am also ...
This week's podcast sponsored by Pain Relief Miracle. One of the biggest mistakes I see people make with tapping is not spending enough time on an issue to make sure that it is completely cleared. Because tapping brings relief so quickly in the ...
I am always humbled at how willing my clients are to share some of the most private parts of their lives. Once we have established a trusting relationship, during sessions I hear it all. And that’s a really positive thing because it makes it easier ...
We know that when we are trying to make a change but not taking the required action we need to find out what is behind our resistance. We can ask ourselves what the penalties are for trying, for failing, and for succeeding. But sometimes these ...
When I am listening to my clients talk about their issues I am not just listening for the meaning of what they are sharing, but I am also listening to the very specific words they are using. The words we use to describe something will impact the ...
When working with clients I have noticed that people often believe change is possible and they believe EFT is the tool that will help them to make that change...but they don't believe it is possible for them. They tell me stories of how they have ...
Dealing with unwanted criticism is hard. It’s painful in the moment because the attack feels personal, and it often is. After the fact it tends to fester and gnaw at us. It would be great to believe that we are able to see past the criticism and ...
Learning EFT can be very exciting at first. Tapping is so easy. Anyone can do it! It can be done anywhere! It seems to work for everything! You download podcasts, tapping scripts, and ebooks. You attend online seminars and sign up for ...
As much as we would like to believe in ourselves, our actions, and our future there are times when that is really difficult to do. We can be filled with self-doubt, feeling like we have squandered our opportunities, or that we have made so many ...
If you type "setting goals" into Google it will return over 450 million results. Study after study has shown how crucial setting goals can be to progress. But goals aren't enough. They can get you moving down the right path, but we need more to take ...
Good Morning, I recently received another one of those emails when I was selling my Advanced Tapping Training. It went like this: "Oh I see how it is! You promise that you are going to give us all this free stuff only so you can sell us ...
[Note: Last change for the 40% the Advanced Tapping Training go here http://bit.ly/gatherdeal] One of the keys to being an emotionally intelligent human being is understanding what the people around us are feeling and experiencing. This skill can ...
The things we want to change in our life show up most obviously in the choices we make daily. Because of this it makes the most sense to focus our tapping work on trying to transform these choices. Even if our tapping is successful in doing this, it ...
I think we all know what it is like to feel stuck. We know what we want to do or we know what we want to change, but for some reason we just can't take action. There is an obvious cost to being stuck. For every passing moment that we don't change ...
I always find my conversations with Rick Wilkes interesting. Of all of the interviews I do they tend to be the least planned because they are much more interesting conversations than they are traditional interviews. When I email Rick to see what he ...
A number of years ago Andy Hunt wrote an interesting article on his site Practical Wellbeing that has stuck with me. In Self-Hate Speech he looks at the hate speech laws of the UK and asked the question of how would law enforment respond to you ...
I love talking about the work I do. When I am meeting someone for the first time I don't jump right into tapping or EFT. I talk about self-sabotage, limiting beliefs, and emotional healing. At some point in the conversation, because people are so ...
I love people who have a natural healing disposition. They see their healing talents as a gift that they want to share with others. Sometimes this giftedness has the drawback of attracting many more people than we are capable of helping. For ...
You have been there before. You are trying to make a change, like giving up sweets. The first day is hard. The second is harder. The third day, for some unknown reason, is really easy. You feel awesome. You are making progress. Real change is ...
Creating the loving relationship we desire it isn't simply about finding a partner. We want to find our way to the right relationship that feeds and nurtures us. Unfortunately many people keep finding themselves in the same type of relationship that ...