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Day 1 – Which was really three days

January 17, 2023 by Gene Monterastelli

See all of the updates from our trip here.

At the moment I'm not exactly sure which way is up because of the way my mind and senses have been assaulted in the last few days.

On Saturday evening we left my apartment in NYC. It was 31 degrees (that's just below zero for my readers using Celsius), a light snow was falling and we weren't wearing jackets because we were on our way to just south of the equator.

Over the next 37 hours we had two red-eye flights, over 12 hours in layovers, visited the airports of Accra in Ghana, Nairobi in Kenya, and finally arrived in Kigali, the capital of Rwanda.

Along the way we met many kind and helpful people, ate some delicious Ghanaian jollof rice, and accidently tried to enter Ghana without a visa (it is helpful if you read all the signs at immigration and customs).

Once clearing customs in Rwanda we were greeted with big hugs from our friends and hosts from the Peaceful Heart Network – Gunilla and Ulf.

After settling into the hotel, we went over the plan for the next 11 days and then met a few locals for dinner, who were so charming and warm. I will tell you more about them in the next few days, once I know them a bit better and can do their stories and lives justice. They have lived quite some lives.

Two quotes from dinner:

1) When you cheers with drink glasses, the Rwandans will often say “Kubuzima bwacu” which means “to our life” in a Swahili dialect.

2) One of our local guides was telling us the story of his life and healing, which was a breathtaking story of suffering and overcoming struggle. At the end of it he said (with a smile as wide as his face because he is on the other side of healing), “I was professionally traumatized”!

After dinner I climbed into a bed for the first time in almost three days…such sweet rest!

Tomorrow we are off to a school for 6 to 12-year-olds to see how tapping has been introduced as part of their schooling.

Filed Under: Notes Tagged With: Peaceful Heart Network

East Africa Trip 2023 – Day 0: The Schedule

January 12, 2023 by Gene Monterastelli

A number of people have asked about our journey and what we will be up to while in Rwanda and Uganda. Here is the tentative plan. Make sure you keep checking back here for stories, updates, and photos along the way.

Jan 16th  –  Arriving in Kigali Rwanda at 1.30 pm. Stay at Auberge Beausejour. Resting time. Meeting, planning and dinner with Peaceful Heart Network special trainer in East Africa Placide Nkubito.

Jan 17th – Visit Kingdom Gate School where pupils and teachers have learnt Tapping. Lunch at Ubumwe Hotel rooftop. Visit Kigali Genocide Memorial Center. Evening with Logistics manager Eulade Mutimura and Lawyer Kabalisa Fulgence, both survivors of the1994 Genocide and very good friends of ours. 

Jan 18th – Meet Psychologist Ndabaramiye Olivier, Pius Nyakayiro director of Good News Rwanda, our partner in the latest prison project and others from Rwanda Correctional Service. Travel to Musanze (3 hours). 

Jan 19th – Take part in a workshop with trainers Callixte Rudakenga and Alphonsine. Visit the new Dian Fossey Research center below the Virunga volcanoes.

Jan 20th – Visit Musanze prison. One of the prisons where we have done most workshops. Visit Gisenyi/Rubavu and lake Kivu at the border to DR Congo.

Jan 21st – Back to Kigali. Meeting time is open. Flight to Entebbe Uganda

Jan 22nd – Meet Suicide Zero who have learnt Tapping from PHN. Travel to Murchison National Park by minibus. Approx 6 hours journey  

Jan 23rd – Murchison National Park with guide. 

Jan 24th – Transport to Moyo. Meet Pastor John Obonyo and his South Sudanese refugee community

Jan 25th – Take part in a workshop with Pastor John and others.

Jan 26th – Travel to Kampala Uganda. 

Jan 27th – Evaluation. Conclusion. Departing at 9 pm from Entebbe

Filed Under: Notes Tagged With: Peaceful Heart Network

Pod #544: Is it an emotional or a physical issue?

December 7, 2022 by Gene Monterastelli

Scientific research is increasingly backing up what those of us in the space of transformation have known for decades: our emotional health impacts our physical health.

On one level, this is very exciting. It offers us fresh ways to think about the healing process and frees us from only thinking about the body as a machine that sometimes breaks down.

On another level, it brings a new level of complexity to the healing process. When we experience physical discomfort, is that because of a physical issue, an emotional issue…or both?

These new options may make deciding on the best path to healing more difficult.

In this week's podcast I explore how I think about both physical and emotional issues AND how to figure out where to start with your tapping.

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Filed Under: Podcast Tagged With: emotional, Health, physical

Pod #543: I want more for you than just improving your tapping

December 1, 2022 by Gene Monterastelli

In September of 2007 I created Tapping Q and A with the express purpose of creating resources that would make it easier for people to get the most out of tapping. The tag line has been “Answers to the most common (and uncommon) questions about tapping, so that you can get the most out of each round of tapping.”

Recently, I have had a change of heart.

I no longer want to help people just to tap more effectively. Instead, I want to help them to create lives they love by using tapping more effectively.

That might not seem like a very big change. It might even appear to be no change at all.

For me, the change is significant. In this week's podcast I explain what I mean by this shift in focus, and how I believe it will make tapping a more useful tool for you in practice.

I would love to hear your thoughts on this idea in the comments below.

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Filed Under: Podcast Tagged With: Success, tapping

2022 Tapping Challenge: Day 30 – Tapping for Purpose

November 30, 2022 by Gene Monterastelli

Today we are going to tap for Purpose.

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2022 Tapping Challenge: Day 29 – Tapping for Adaptiveness

November 29, 2022 by Gene Monterastelli

Today we are going to tap for Adaptiveness.

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2022 Tapping Challenge: Day 28 – Tapping for Patience

November 28, 2022 by Gene Monterastelli

Today we are going to tap for Patience.

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2022 Tapping Challenge: Day 27 – Tapping for Resourcefulness

November 27, 2022 by Gene Monterastelli

Today we are going to tap for Resourcefulness.

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2022 Tapping Challenge: Day 26 – Tapping for Empathy

November 26, 2022 by Gene Monterastelli

Today we are going to tap for Empathy.

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2022 Tapping Challenge: Day 25 – Tapping for Harmony

November 25, 2022 by Gene Monterastelli

Today we are going to tap for Harmony.

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Pod #542: Thankful vs Grateful

November 24, 2022 by Gene Monterastelli

For most people, the words thankful and grateful are interchangeable. But even though they are very similar, there is a small but significant difference between their definitions.

I am not super concerned about whether you are using either word correctly, however I do think that there is an important distinction between thankful and grateful as it relates to our healing and transformation work.

I was introduced to the distinction in one of my favorite podcasts Go Fact Yourself. Go Fact Yourself is a quiz show in which the first round is called Split The Difference where the contestants are asked to provide definitions of two words that are very close in meaning to illustrate their difference.

In episode 114 the contestants were asked to split the difference between thankful and grateful. The correct answer was a revelation for me!

In this week's podcast I share the difference between thankful and grateful, as well as how both of those fit into our transformational process.

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2022 Tapping Challenge: Day 24 – Tapping for Joy

November 24, 2022 by Gene Monterastelli

Today we are going to tap for Joy.

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2022 Tapping Challenge: Day 23 – Tapping for Resolve

November 23, 2022 by Gene Monterastelli

Today we are going to tap for Resolve.

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2022 Tapping Challenge: Day 22 – Tapping for Passion

November 22, 2022 by Gene Monterastelli

Today we are going to tap for Passion.

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2022 Tapping Challenge: Day 21 – Tapping for Clarity

November 21, 2022 by Gene Monterastelli

Today we are going to tap for Clarity.

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2022 Tapping Challenge: Day 20 – Tapping for Nurturing

November 20, 2022 by Gene Monterastelli

Today we are going to tap for Nurturing.

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2022 Tapping Challenge: Day 19 – Tapping for Vitality

November 19, 2022 by Gene Monterastelli

Today we are going to tap for Vitality.

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2022 Tapping Challenge: Day 18 – Tapping for Focus

November 18, 2022 by Gene Monterastelli

Today we are going to tap for Focus.

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2022 Tapping Challenge: Day 17 – Tapping for Courage

November 17, 2022 by Gene Monterastelli

Today we are going to tap for Courage.

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2022 Tapping Challenge: Day 16 – Tapping for Acceptance

November 16, 2022 by Gene Monterastelli

Today we are going to tap for Acceptance.

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