Tapping Q & A with Gene Monterastelli - Get the most out of tapping and EFT

Your Goals Are Holding You Back

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I am a huge fan of goal setting!

About once a year I sit down to craft out my goals for the next year. Once a month I look at my goals and rewrite them to meet the changes in my life. Every Monday morning I spend a few minutes reading and tapping with my goals.

I have found that goal setting has been hugely beneficial in my life and I don't say that in a “I feel better” way. There is tangible evidence that I am more productive, happier, and healthier because of setting goals.

But there is a dark side to goal setting.

Sometimes we set the wrong goal.
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They Keep Telling Me I Am Stupid For Giving It Away Free (Are They Right?)

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I am going be up front with you. This email is going to challenge you. I might even come off as a little cranky (or a lot cranky).

I'm OK with that. This is too important for me to worry about what you think about me.

“You Give Away Too Much!”
Hear this a lot from other practitioners. They tell me there is way too much free content and because there is so much free content nobody will ever hire me or buy my stuff. Why would they bother?

I personally think it is a good way to work but I decided to consider this more closely.

On the back of an envelope on a recent flight I did some calculations. Based on the average number of people who open my emails only about 0.6% ever hire me for sessions or buy anything from the site.

That is not 6%, but 0.6%.

That mean 99.4% use the resources totally free of charge.

In the end I am OK with that because my goal in creating the site isn't only as a source of income. I know that the site ends up helping those who might not able to afford to pay for tapping resources.

With that in mind…

A Question For The 99.4%
I am guessing you keep opening my emails because you find them useful in some way. Not everything and not everyone, but there is enough useful stuff that you come back for more.

So the question I have for you is this…

How valuable are the hundreds of free resources that are available at TappingQ&A to you?

If I gave you the choice which would you do?

  • Give up one cup of coffee on the first day of the month or give up TappingQ&A
  • Give up two movies in the next year or give up TappingQ&A
  • Give up one night with friends or give up TappingQ&A

I'm Not Really Asking You To Give Up TappingQ&A
I am not asking you to give up TappingQ&A, but I ask those questions so that you consider what the free resources mean to you.

AND I would like to give you the chance to demonstrate what you think it is worth.

April 21st through May 12th ten EFT practitioners are going to the Philippines to tap with 10,000 kids whose lives were impacted by a major typhoon last November. I am asking you to consider a way that you can show your appreciation for the value of TappingQ&A is by helping to support this powerful work.

Better Than Any Thank You
I love the very kind notes that people often send me thanking me for the site. I love when people tell me about how they used one of the tools to make their life better.

It really means a lot, but this would mean so much more.

If you want to say thank you for what you receive free from TappingQ&A you can do it in a way in which you will be also helping kids on the other side of the world recover from a major trauma.

I am not asking you to do something I won't do. I receive a number of things free of charge to which I willing give money monthly because I believe in the work that is being done. (I donate $100 a month to just one cause because I know it brings me so much value each month.)

If you would like details on the project you can find them here: Full details

Click this link and make a small donation.

A donation as small as $25 will mean EFT work for 5 kids.

You Give! You Get!
As a thank you if you donate $25 or more I will send you:

  • “50 EFT Scripts To Stop Self-Sabotage” ebook by me
  • “New Energy Therapies” ebook by Steve Wells and David Lake
  • “EFT Level 1 Manual” ebook by Tania A. Prince.
  • (If we reach the goal of $15k) I will do 4 free teleclasses.

Think of it like this: Kids receive the help they need and you receive some really useful tapping bonuses.

Click this link and make a small donation.

Thanks for your continued support of TappingQ&A.

Please let me know what I can do to be helpful!

Gene

Pod #128: EFT For Fear Of Failure And Fear of Success w/ Annabel Fisher

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On the surface it might not seem like an obvious connection, but in many ways fear of failure and fear of success are the opposite sides of the same coin.

Fear of failure is concerned about what goes wrong when things don't work out. Fear of success is concerned about what goes wrong when things do work out. (And, yes, things can still go wrong when we are successful.)

Both fears keep us from taking action, believing it will keep us out of harm’s way.

In this interview with Annabel Fisher we talk about the fears of failure and success, how they are related, and how we can tap for them.


Annabel Fisher

Guest: Annabel Fisher

Contact Annabel: web @ TheEFTHealingCentre.com; facebook @ EFT with Annabel; Radio show @ Tap Into Your Healthy Self; twitter @EFTwithAnnabel; youtube @ Annabel's channel

About Annabel: Annabel Fisher started her EFT Practice in 2005 on a shoestring, with no money to speak of, and still recovering from the long term effects of Chronic Fatigue Syndrome (CFS). Having used all her savings to facilitate her recovery from illness, what she lacked in financial resources, she made up for in sheer determination! She's since enabled hundreds of clients around the world struggling with chronic illnesses to transition into a living a healthy, vibrant and fully mobile life. A Certified AAMET EFT Practitioner and Trainer, and Certified Matrix Reimprinting Practitioner and Trainer, Annabel now focuses her attention on training and mentoring students to become masterful Certified EFT and Matrix Practitioners, and empowering them to create wildly successful EFT Practices. She is the host of the radio show ‘How To Create A Wildly Successful EFT Practice', and the author of the upcoming book, ‘The Healing Game: Transforming Chronic Illness Using EFT' (pub date Nov 2014).

Are you tired of your fear of failure, success, or both getting in your way of taking the action you know you want to take? In the Ruach Center we have over 180 tap-along audios, teleclasses, and tools to help you clear these fears and take the action you want. Take a tour of Ruach Center right now!

Pod #127: Your Self-Sabotage Is Brilliant w/ Brad Yates

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Self-sabotage can be so frustrating. There are times when we know exactly what we need to be doing, yet we still choose the wrong course of action.

Sometimes I can see myself getting in my own way and I am amazed at how creatively I self-sabotage. If it didn't negatively impact my life I would almost think it is funny!

Brad Yates uses an interesting word to describe this type of creative self-sabotage. He calls it “brilliant”. It is not brilliant in the outcome that results, but it is brilliant in how creative it is in causing us problems.

In this interview Brad and I talk about the amazing ways we get in our own way and what we can do to leverage this brilliance into having what we want.


Brad Yates

Guest: Brad Yates

Contact: twitter @EFTWizard; web @ TapWithBrad.com ; facebook @ facebook.com/BradYatesTapping

About Brad: Brad has had the privilege and pleasure of working with a diverse group of clients, from CEOs to professional and NCAA athletes, from chiropractors and psychiatrists to corporate and federal attorneys, from award-winning actors to residents at a program for homeless men and women in Santa Monica. For several years he taught a weekly class using EFT and guided imagery at Sacramento Drug Court. He has also been a presenter at a number of events, including several International Energy Psychology Conferences and the Walk On Water (WOW) Fest in Los Angeles. He has presented at Jack Canfield's Breakthrough to Success event, and has done teleseminars with “The Secret” stars Bob Doyle and Dr. Joe Vitale. He is also the co-author of the bestseller “Freedom at Your Fingertips,” a featured expert in the film “Try It On Everything” (along with Jack Canfield, Bob Proctor, Dr. Norman Shealy and Dr. Bruce Lipton), and has been heard internationally on a number of internet radio talk shows.

Are you looking for ways to stop your “brilliant” self-sabotage? I have created an entire website design to help you. There are over 180 tap-along audios, tele-classes, and tool designed to help you move past your blocks and take the actions you want. Full details on Ruach Center.

Pod #126: Lesson From Tapping With Children With Cancer w/ Deborah Miller PhD

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EFT is such a powerful tool that we all know that we should “try it on anything.” Even though most of us have tried it on anything we haven't taken it to the extremes. Most of have tapped for deep and powerful issues, but not in moments that are literally life or death.

Deborah Miller has done just that. She works with children with cancer and their parents. She is doing more than trying it on anything, she is being successful!

In this interview we talk about what all tappers can learn from her work with these extreme issues. We also talk about the book she has written on how parents and children can use tapping.

Guest: Deborah D. Miller PhD

The Dragon with Flames of Love The Book:

EFT Resources For Parents:

About Deborah: Deborah D. Miller, Ph.D. in Cell and Molecular Biology is passionate about helping people feel empowered and capable of maintaining a healthy state of mind and body.

Deborah is an EFT Expert and Trainer, Deeksha Giver, Reiki Master, Nutritional Guide, Personal Motivation Guide and internationally recognized author. She understands the necessity of working with the emotional aspects underlying ‘dis-ease’ within the body and the need to cleanse and nourish the physical body. Her personal journey of improving her own immune system gives her hands-on experience of the requirements for improving one’s energy levels and health.

Deborah volunteers at a children’s cancer wing in Oaxaca, Mexico, applying EFT and energy techniques to the children, parents and nurses helping them reduce stress, fear and anxiety while improving their mental and emotional health in a way that is complementary to the treatments given at the hospital.

Helping these children has led Deborah to a heart-felt, passionate and inspired goal. She is dedicating herself to helping at least 1,000,000 men, women and children prevent future illness (mental, emotional or physical) using the simplest, easiest and most economical methods. Tap, eat & drink your way to health!

Deborah is the author of the beautifully illustrated book “The Dragon with Flames of Love”, which is dedicated to empowering parents and children facing the challenge of a serious illness in a way that provides relief and peace, and “Green Drink Red Drink”, which provides information and recipes on how to add healthy greens to your meals.

Deborah has been a guest on the Tapping Q&A Podcast a number of times. Make sure you check out her past appearances.