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Tag Archives: Others

Pod #376: Tapping For How We Act Based On How Others See Us

August 7, 2019 By Gene Monterastelli 1 Comment

Recently I was introduced to the quote "I'm not who I think I am. I not who you think I am. I am who I think you think I am." [Note: Unfortunately the source of this quote is not clear, or I would provide it. It is variously credited to Charles ...

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Filed Under: Podcast Tagged With: Others, Peer Pressure, Self Esteem

How To Tap For Your Loved Ones

September 5, 2016 By Gene Monterastelli 1 Comment

In Podcast #236 I answered four listener questions. Below you will find the audio of all four questions and the transcript for question #2. Please bear in mind that I speak in a slightly more informal fashion than I write, which you will notice in ...

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Filed Under: Q&A Tagged With: Family, Others, Surrogate

Tapping To Let Go Of Pleasing Others (w/ tapping script)

October 5, 2014 By Gene Monterastelli Leave a Comment

Back in April Seth Godin wrote on his blog: You will never, ever run out of strangers. And so, the goal of perfectly pleasing an infinite number of passersby is a fool's errand. They come with their own world view, their own issues, their ...

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Filed Under: Q&A Tagged With: Expectations, Others

My Holiday Embarrassment

January 6, 2013 By Gene Monterastelli 7 Comments

I spent the Christmas holiday in my home state of Wyoming. The last night I was home my sister asked if I could share a way she could tap for a friend who was grappling with a lot of difficult changes in his life. I spent about 30 minutes talking ...

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Filed Under: Tools Tagged With: Others, Peace, Surrogate

TapAlong: Please See How Much I Am Putting Myself Last!

December 19, 2011 By Gene Monterastelli Leave a Comment

I love helping other people out. I think I am good at it and I know that I enjoy it. I also know that others have noticed that I am good at helping people. I have personally and professionally been recognized for doing so. It is part of who I am and ...

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Filed Under: Tap Along Tagged With: Love, Others, Premium Member, Self Esteem, TapAlong Member

TapAlong #2: Not Needing Others’ Permission To Change

July 15, 2011 By Gene Monterastelli 2 Comments

We are connected to many people in our lives, some very closely, others less so. When we make choices we don't make them in a vacuum as we know that they impact other people, either affecting them directly or simply in the way they see us. Because ...

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Filed Under: Tap Along Tagged With: Free TapAlong, Others, Premium Member, Resistance, TapAlong Member

People Who Suck Us Emotionally Dry

September 28, 2010 By Gene Monterastelli 8 Comments

There are people in my life who seem to always suck me emotionally dry. They either take all my energy or dump all their troubles on me. How do I prevent this from happing? photo by Joriel "Joz" Jimenez One of the ...

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Filed Under: Q&A Tagged With: Emotions, Family, Others, Tap Along, Work

Pod #42: Carrying Burdens For Others and Generational Work

September 22, 2010 By Gene Monterastelli 2 Comments

Carrying an emotional burden for someone else is a very high act of love, but it can have consequences for our own emotions and health. In this episode we look at how and why we carry burdens for others and past generations, and how we can use ...

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Filed Under: Podcast Tagged With: Burden, Generational, Others, Premium Member, Tap, TapAlong Member

People Might Not Like It When We Change

April 23, 2010 By Gene Monterastelli Leave a Comment

I have been using tapping for the last six months and love the results. One thing I have noticed is that my family is not excited about my change at all. Some of the members of my family even resent it. Is this common and is there anything I can ...

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Filed Under: Q&A Tagged With: Growth, Others, Resistance, Transform

Teaching Others How To Tap

April 12, 2010 By Gene Monterastelli 4 Comments

I want to share Emotional Freedom Techniques(EFT)/tapping with my friends and family and I would even like to teach workshops on tapping, but I don't know where to begin. Do you have any suggestions on how to teach tapping to others? ...

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Filed Under: Q&A Tagged With: How To, Others, Practitioner, Speaking, Teaching

Using The Ways Others Aggravate Us As A Tool To Self-Healing

March 26, 2010 By Gene Monterastelli 3 Comments

Here is a tweet that I love: @robpurdie i am the things i don't like about other people. Sometimes this is a really hard fact to admit, but I know in my own life it is true. When I am really bent out of shape by someone else's actions it is ...

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Filed Under: Tools Tagged With: Forgiveness, Others, Self Aware, Self Esteem

Pod #28: It’s Not Surrogate But It Helps Others To Make Different Choices

February 26, 2010 By Gene Monterastelli 3 Comments

I often receive questions about how to tap in order to change someone else’s behavior. There are some very specific implementations of surrogate Emotional Freedom Techniques(EFT)/tapping, such as in the work I do with autistic children and their ...

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Filed Under: Podcast Tagged With: Audio, Others, Premium Member, Self Aware, Surrogate, TapAlong Member

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