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Tag Archives: Subconscious

Pod #657: Turn intellectual pushback into tapping progress

April 10, 2025 By Gene Monterastelli Leave a Comment

One of the most consistent struggles my clients have is coming up with the "right" words. The problem is, there is no such thing as the right words when it comes to tapping. Instead there are words that are useful and words that are not. I am ...

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Filed Under: Podcast Tagged With: Resistance, Subconscious

Pod #630: The Subconscious Tug of War: Tapping to Balance Short-Term Relief with Long-Term Healing

September 25, 2024 By Gene Monterastelli Leave a Comment

Do you ever feel like no matter how much time you spend working on your personal growth, you’re never truly moving forward? One of the biggest challenges in creating lasting healing and transformation is the simple fact that there’s never enough ...

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Filed Under: Podcast Tagged With: long term healing, mindset, Subconscious

Pod #624: The power of speaking subconscious thoughts

August 14, 2024 By Gene Monterastelli Leave a Comment

One of the phrases that Gary Craig used in the original EFT training videos that has stuck with me is "the comedies of our mind". When using this phrase, Gary was referring to the recurring thoughts that we had about ourselves that, when they were ...

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Filed Under: Podcast Tagged With: Critical Voice, Emotions, Subconscious

Pod #615: Tapping for perfectionism

June 12, 2024 By Gene Monterastelli Leave a Comment

There is a natural human tendency to want to make sure everything is "exactly right" before we take action. That's because when everything is exactly right, we can be as sure as we can be of getting the results we desire. Our subconscious mind ...

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Filed Under: Podcast Tagged With: Action, perfectionist, Subconscious

Pod #595: Tailenders – The most value part of a round of tapping

January 24, 2024 By Gene Monterastelli Leave a Comment

One of the very first ideas I was introduced to when I was learning the basics of tapping was something called a "tailender". Tailenders are the little (or big) pieces of resistance that speak up when we are tapping. For example I could tap on ...

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Filed Under: Podcast Tagged With: Resistance, Subconscious, Tailenders

Pod #578: All or nothing in the subconscious mind – Healing Fundamentals (Part 14)

September 27, 2023 By Gene Monterastelli Leave a Comment

Because of the nature of the work I do with clients and in my personal healing work, I spend a lot of time thinking about the subconscious mind. Over time, I have come to realize that the superpower of the subconscious mind is its ability to ...

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Filed Under: Podcast Tagged With: Subconscious, Transformation Fundamentals

Pod #572: Your loved ones want you to change (as long as they don’t have to) – Healing Fundamentals (Part 9)

August 16, 2023 By Gene Monterastelli Leave a Comment

In this week's podcast we are continuing the Healing Fundamentals series by looking at the ways the people in our lives put up resistance when we heal and change. AND I don't mean the people who don't like us or those who are jealous of what we ...

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Filed Under: Podcast Tagged With: Family, Loved Ones, Resistance, Subconscious, Transformation Fundamentals

Pod #571: When the new normal becomes the normal – Healing Fundamentals (Part 8)

August 9, 2023 By Gene Monterastelli Leave a Comment

In this week's podcast we are continuing the Healing Fundamentals series by looking at the subconscious mind in a completely different way. When we recognize the ways in which the subconscious mind holds us back from taking positive action, it is ...

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Filed Under: Podcast Tagged With: Memory, Resistance, Subconscious, Transformation Fundamentals

Pod #570: You are a notoriously bad eyewitness to your own experience – Healing Fundamentals (Part 7)

August 2, 2023 By Gene Monterastelli Leave a Comment

This week we are continuing the Healing Fundamentals by looking at why our subconscious mind and memory is faulty. The reality is that nobody has a perfect memory. Even those with a photographic memory cannot remember everything. In small ways, ...

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Filed Under: Podcast Tagged With: Memory, Subconscious, Transformation Fundamentals

Pod #569: If it weren’t for resistance, change would already have happened – Healing Fundamentals (Part 6)

July 26, 2023 By Gene Monterastelli Leave a Comment

This week we are continuing the Healing Fundamentals series with a look at resistance. Just because we know what to do, how to do it, and why it is important to take an action, does not mean we will actually take that action. In order for us to ...

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Filed Under: Podcast Tagged With: Resistance, Subconscious, Transformation Fundamentals

Pod #567: Operative reality is reality to the subconscious mind – Healing Fundamentals (Part 5)

July 12, 2023 By Gene Monterastelli Leave a Comment

This week we are continuing the Healing Fundamentals series by looking at how the subconscious mind's understanding of the world influences every choice we make. The subconscious mind is a valuable tool in helping us to navigate the world. It ...

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Filed Under: Podcast Tagged With: Subconscious, Transformation Fundamentals

Pod #566: The negativity bias of the subconscious – Healing Fundamentals (Part 4)

July 5, 2023 By Gene Monterastelli Leave a Comment

This week we are continuing the Healing Fundamentals series with a lesson that is critical to understand if you want to clear self-sabotage and take more consistent action. One of the best parts of our subconscious mind is that it is a learning ...

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Filed Under: Podcast Tagged With: Action, Choice, Feelings, Negativity Bias, Subconscious, Transformation Fundamentals

Pod #523: Tapping to release your old identities

January 12, 2022 By Gene Monterastelli 1 Comment

As humans we are constantly changing and evolving. Sometimes this happens gently over a long passage of time. At other times major events in our lives cause us to see ourselves and the world in new ways. Even as this change is happening, our ...

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Filed Under: Podcast Tagged With: Habits, Identity, Subconscious

Pod #432: Using Metaphor To Supercharge Your Tapping

February 19, 2020 By Gene Monterastelli 1 Comment

The tool that I use the most often from my hypnosis training while doing tapping and EFT is metaphor. The subconscious mind often works in imagery as a way of presenting struggle, trauma, and limiting beliefs. Since this is the language of the ...

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Filed Under: Podcast Tagged With: How To, Metaphor, Subconscious

Pod #36: Questions and Answers About Tapping

May 31, 2010 By Gene Monterastelli Leave a Comment

Gene host's a radio program every other Tuesday @ Emotional Freedom Techniques Community Radio. In the most recent show Gene answered questions from beginners and practitioners alike from all over the world. This week Gene answered: Will tapping ...

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