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Pod #552: “I know it is a healing process AND…” – My favorite tapping phrases (Part 3)

March 29, 2023 by Gene Monterastelli

One of the exciting prospects that tapping opens up for us is the possibility of creating meaningful change in our lives.

AND tapping creates that internal change much faster than many other tools.

This speed is great, except for the fact it can also give rise to unrealistic expectations about how quickly we believe transformation should happen.

When the change we want does not happen instantaneously (or as quickly as we would like), it is easy to feel frustrated, or even demotivated, in the midst of the healing process.

This week I share my favorite tapping phrase to help with this frustration.

As an added bonus, of all the tapping phrases I use with my clients, this is the one that is most likely to cause them to laugh (and humor can be a great tool in the healing process).

Let me know how you incorporate a phrase like this one into your tapping in the comments below.

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Pod #551: “I give myself permission” – My favorite tapping phrases (Part 2)

March 22, 2023 by Gene Monterastelli

The main job of the subconscious mind is to keep us safe.

It is constantly on the alert for anything in our environment that could be harmful.

This is great…except when it is not.

It is not so great when it causes us needless worry.

Even with its constant desire to keep us from harm, the subconscious mind is good at recognizing the places in our lives where we are normally safe. For example, many people regard their home as a place of safe and predictable sanctuary, so their whole system relaxes when they walk in their front door.

I have found using the phrase “I give myself permission…” can do exactly the same thing when we are tapping. Letting our subconscious mind know it is in a safe space allows it to be less vigilant and more relaxed, which in turn makes healing easier.

In this week’s podcast I share the many different contexts in which I use the phrase “I give myself permission…” and how you can start to use it in your tapping right away.

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Pod #550: “I recognize the fact” – My favorite tapping phrases (Part 1)

March 15, 2023 by Gene Monterastelli

I love to learn and in the first decade of my tapping life, I consumed everything I could about tapping and transformation.

I subscribed to every newsletter I could find, I listened to podcasts, read books, and attended many live trainings.

In the process, I came across the work of Milton Erikson, the founder of the American Society for Clinical Hypnosis, who is often referred to as the Dean of American Hypnosis.

Right away, I latched on to his idea that “All transformation starts by stating what is.” By this, Milton Erikson meant that we cannot create real and lasting change until we level with ourselves. If we are unwilling to be honest about what we are struggling with and where we are stuck, then it is practically impossible to create meaningful change.

I see this idea as so important that if you go back and listen to any of the tap-alongs I have created in the last 10 years, you will find reference to this idea.

In this week’s podcast, I share with you how I employ this idea in my tapping, and how you can add it to your tapping right away!

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Pod #549: Tapping for possibility

March 8, 2023 by Gene Monterastelli

One of the primary functions of our subconscious mind is to keep us safe.

The subconscious is constantly on the lookout for possible danger or trouble, and steers us away from anything that is unpredictable, such as taking new and bold action. In seeking to avoid putting us at risk, our subconscious will choose the predictably bad over the unpredictable.

One of the ways to ease the resistance created by the subconscious is to tap on possibilities. In this week’s podcast I teach you how I tap for possibility and how this will make taking action so much easier.

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Pod #548: Setting a tapping session up for success

March 1, 2023 by Gene Monterastelli

In most areas of my life, I have found that taking some time to think about what I am trying to accomplish and my motivation sets me up for a better outcome.

I am more present to the action I am taking. I am more attentive to what is and is not working. And I am much more likely to take the most effective actions because I’m clear about what I am trying.

This is especially true with tapping. Without clarity on what you are trying to achieve with a round of tapping, it is easy to jump from issue to issue without ever completely clearing any one issue. It is also hard to gauge whether or not to continue tapping on an issue without a clear sense of your goal.

Last weekend I led a mindset expansion day for a number of my students. We spent close to four hours tapping on those niggly internal limiting beliefs that hold us back from creating authentic lives that we love.

To start the day, we did some tapping around the group’s intentions for the day. It was a powerful round of tapping and it was the perfect set-up for a powerful day of transformation.

This is something you can do before every round of tapping to get even more benefit out of your sessions.

In this week’s podcast I teach you how I set my intention for a tapping session AND I include the tapping we did as a group.

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