Tag Archives: Forgiveness

Pod #198: EFT For Beating Yourself Up Over Your Past

December 9, 2015 by Gene Monterastelli

As humans we are skilled at learning from our past. This also means that we can be overly critical and spend too much time beating ourselves up over poor choices we have made in the past. Part of us resists self-forgiveness because of the concern ...

Guilty v. Regret

September 28, 2011 by Gene Monterastelli

[In this series we examine the importance of the words we use and how changing our vocabulary can change our mind giving us opportunity for transformation. More articles can be found in this series @ Tools: Words] photo by ...

The Hardest and Most Radical Tapping You Can Do

May 28, 2011 by Gene Monterastelli

photo by Abby I was working with a client named “Jane”. Jane really knows Emotional Freedom Techniques(EFT)/tapping. I said to her, “I have a radical suggestion for you. And you don’t need to do it. But it is a thought. I think you need to ...

Strategic Self Kindness

February 23, 2011 by Gene Monterastelli

[Note from Gene: One of the biggest struggles I face in my own healing is the ablity to be easy with myself. I want better for myself. I expect more of myself. I know what I am capable of better. I WANT IT NOW! This makes it very hard to be easy ...

Pod #41: Power of Forgiveness

August 24, 2010 by Gene Monterastelli

One of the most powerful tools in transformation is our ability to forgive ourselves and others. When we forgive we are not saying it is ok. We are not saying we want to have the same thing happen again. What we are saying is that we are choosing no ...