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Pod #655: Respond, don’t react! Tapping for recognizing and managing stress quickly

March 26, 2025 by Gene Monterastelli

We often refer to tapping for stress and feeling overwhelmed as emotional first aid. That is because we are applying a tool for quick relief in the moment in the same way we would use first aid for a physical injury.

But there is one key difference between first aid and emotional first aid.

When we are physically injured, our first thought is “I need to take care of this right now!” When we need emotional first aid, we are so caught up in our emotions that we don't realize we need to do something about what we are feeling.

Listen to this week's podcast to learn how to use tapping as an emotional first aid tool and how to ensure you reach for tapping in the moments you most need it.

Because it doesn't do you any good to know how to tap for stress, but don't actually do it! Following these simple steps will ensure you tap more and short circuit stress and overwhelm promptly.

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Pod #654: Tapping for tasks you despise

March 19, 2025 by Gene Monterastelli

A number of years ago I was visiting my friend “Mike” and his family.

Mike asked his youngest son, who was about five at the time, to tidy his room before dinner.

His son replied, in the most overwrought and dramatic voice possible, “But whyyyyyyyyyyyy? I am just going to make it messy again!”

I can relate!

There are SO MANY tasks on my to-do list that I dislike doing and there are even some that I despise.

In this week's podcast, I share some simple ways you can clear your resistance to doing the tasks you despise.

I can't promise that tapping will make those tasks enjoyable, but you will get more done and you won't have those dreaded tasks hanging over you any longer.

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Pod #653: Tapping for exhaustion and feeling emotionally drained

March 12, 2025 by Gene Monterastelli

There is a huge difference between bouncing back from being tired and being exhausted.

When we are tired, we simply need to refill our tank.

When we are exhausted, we first have to recover from being exhausted before we can even consider refilling our tank.

In this week's podcast, I share seven simple ways you can help yourself when you are feeling exhausted or emotionally drained.

And the great thing about these seven ideas is that you don't have to do them all in order to bounce back. Instead, you can pick and choose the two or three that work best for you.

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Pod #652: Stop picking up others emotional burdens without feeling like a selfish jerk

March 5, 2025 by Gene Monterastelli

One of the hardest parts of being a caring person is witnessing others in pain.

When we see someone struggling, it feels natural to want to step in and help.

With that being said, there is a fine line between being helpful and taking responsibility for someone else's suffering.

This becomes doubly hard where emotional burdens are concerned. While we might be able to assist with practical struggles, we can't pick up someone else's emotional struggle.

In this week's podcast I explore:

  • Why we are prone to picking up other people's emotional burdens
  • How to release these burdens without feeling unkind or selfish
  • How to avoid picking up the emotional burdens of others in the future

If you care deeply about others but often find yourself overwhelmed by their emotions, this episode is for you.

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Pod #651: Permission to feel: Embracing emotions without judgment

February 26, 2025 by Gene Monterastelli

There is this moment in every tapper's life when we move from “This tapping thing is amazing” to “Oh my goodness there are soooooo many issues for me to tap on. Every time I clear one issue I find four more!”

It's easy to feel frustrated and demotivated when this happens.

You might even stop tapping altogether because it feels like the tapping is creating more problems than it is solving (when we know it is really just uncovering what is already there).

This week in the podcast, I share with you what I do when I feel overwhelmed with all the work I need to do and the fact that there seem to be so many emotions.

By tapping in this way we can move from feeling overwhelmed by our emotions, to recognizing it is just one more step on our healing journey.

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