• Skip to primary navigation
  • Skip to main content
  • Skip to primary sidebar
  • Skip to footer
  • Leave A Tip

Tapping Q & A with Gene Monterastelli - Get the most out of tapping and EFT

  • Learn Tapping
  • Podcast
  • Video
  • About Gene
  • Work w/Gene
  • Archive
    • Every Post Ever
    • Q&A
    • Podcast
    • Videos
    • Tools
    • Tap Along
    • Sessions
  • Events
  • Contact Us

Pod #537 Why does healing have to be a process?

August 31, 2022 by Gene Monterastelli

One of the biggest frustrations of the tapping process is the fact that it is a process. One-minute miracles do exist, but they are rare.

Naturally, part of us would like transformation to happen immediately, while another part of us understands that healing is more often a process that takes time. When these two parts are in conflict, it can slow down your healing progress.

In this week's podcast, I share how to manage this sort of internal discord so that you can smooth the way for more rapid and lasting healing.

You can find the full tapping script of this audio as a pdf over at Tapping Q and A Podcast Scripts and Transcripts.

Support the podcast!

Subscribe in: Apple Podcast | iPhone | Android | Google Podcast | Spotify | Pandora | Amazon Music | iHeartRadio

Filed Under: Podcast Tagged With: Action, Frustration, Healing, Process

Pod #536: Balancing kindness with authenticity

August 10, 2022 by Gene Monterastelli

Recently I was working with a client who was struggling with her wish to communicate some hard truths with certain friends in her life.

She felt stuck because she knew that her friends would not like what she wanted to share. On one hand, she knew what she needed to say AND at the exact same time, she did not want to be unkind.

Sometimes we find ourselves in a situation where our desire to be authentic and our desire to be kind are in conflict.
In this week's podcast we talk about (and tap for) finding a balance between being kind and being a doormat.

Support the podcast! Http://tappingqanda.com/support

Subscribe in: Apple Podcast | iPhone | Android | Google Podcast | Spotify | Pandora | Amazon Music | iHeartRadio

Filed Under: Podcast

Pod #535: What motorcycle jumps and lily pads have to do with healing

August 3, 2022 by Gene Monterastelli

In the last few months I have been giving a lot of thought to the nature of tapping and its applications. For the longest time I have thought of tapping as an approach to creating transformation.

I am starting to change my mind about this.

Instead of being a single approach, I begin to understand tapping as a tool that can accommodate multiple approaches that are dictated by the issue we are working on, the skill of the tapping practitioner, and whether we are working alone or with someone else.

The first level of analysis involves developing my understanding of what the healing process looks like for a particular issue.

Recently, I have been describing this with the help of an analogy involving motorcycle jumps and lily pads. In this week's podcast I talk about the difference between these two approaches and how they can make all the difference in the transformation that you can achieve with tapping.

Support the podcast!

Subscribe in: Apple Podcast | iPhone | Android | Google Podcast | Spotify | Pandora | Amazon Music | iHeartRadio

Filed Under: Podcast Tagged With: approach, Healing, Transformation

Pod #534: 60 Minutes Of Mindset Tapping

June 15, 2022 by Gene Monterastelli

Last weekend I did a one-hour livestream tap-along and took recommendations from the viewers as to which topics we should tap on.

During that hour we tapped on:

  • Giving ourselves permission to do self-care
  • Feeling hesitant to make important decisions
  • Perfectionism
  • Getting our enthusiasm back
  • Worry about upcoming changes that we don't control
  • Fear of missing out
  • Concern about negative self-talk taking over our emotions
  • Fear of sharing your work with potential clients
  • Letting go of anger and resentment

Below you will find the recording of the live stream from YouTube as well as an mp3 version of the tap-along that you can download and take with you.

Support the podcast!

Subscribe in: Apple Podcast | iPhone | Android | Google Podcast | Spotify | Pandora | Amazon Music | iHeartRadio

Filed Under: Podcast, Tap Along Tagged With: Choice, Fear, Overwhelm, Worry

Pod #533: The difference between need, desire, and preference AND why it is important in transformational work

June 1, 2022 by Gene Monterastelli

One of the concepts from my NLP training that has stayed with me is the idea that we don't emotionally respond to how the world is, but instead to how we describe the world.

An example I often use is of someone saying “Everyone at work hates me!” It is possible that everyone at work might hate the person making that claim, but it is unlikely to be everyone.

BUT if that is how work is described, then the person saying this will walk into their office with their guard up, fearing every interaction with their co-workers.

In this week's podcast we dive into the difference between need, desire, and preference, and how you can incorporate this understanding into your tapping practice to allow for more rapid personal transformation.

Support the podcast! Http://tappingqanda.com/support

Subscribe in: Apple Podcast | iPhone | Android | Google Podcast | Spotify | Pandora | Amazon Music | iHeartRadio

Filed Under: Podcast Tagged With: Desire, Need, preference, Words

  • « Go to Previous Page
  • Page 1
  • Interim pages omitted …
  • Page 81
  • Page 82
  • Page 83
  • Page 84
  • Page 85
  • Interim pages omitted …
  • Page 311
  • Go to Next Page »

10 Steps To Stop Self-Sabotage

Get your FREE 10 step guide to using EFT to stop self-sabotage in your life.

Search Tapping Q & A

Meet Gene Monterastelli

Gene MonterastelliGene Monterastelli is a Brooklyn based tapping practitioner. In addition to working with individual clients and groups, he regularly writes and records about how to use tapping to move from self-sabotage to productive action.
Gene’s Full Bio & Services


Subscribe via: Apple Podcasts | Google Podcast | Android Phone | Spotify | Pandora | Amazon Music | Audible | iHeart Radio | Castbox | Alexa | Stitcher | TuneIn | Deezer | aCast | Himalaya | Overcast | Luminary | RSS
Visit the complete Podcast Archive

Apple App | Google/Android App

 

This book is not just about EFT and tapping for anger. The book contains some of the most comprehensive step-by-step tapping tools that can be used for all emotions and can be added to your tapping tool set right away.

For every book purchased, four inmates will also receive a copy of the book.

For every book purchased 4 inmates will also receive a copy of the book.

Paperback | Kindle Version

Copyright © 2026 · Refund Policy · Terms of Use· Privacy Policy