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Pod #349: EFT for Long-Term Transformation w/ Rick Hanson, Ph.D.

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When people are looking for long term results with tapping they commonly run into one of two problems. Either they are working on the wrong issue for their desired outcome OR they are only working on a symptom and not the root cause.

If you are making either of these mistakes, chances are that you're not getting as much as you can out of your tapping practice.

New York Times bestselling author Rich Hanson has done a masterful job in breaking down the types of problems in relation to our sense of safety, satisfaction, and connection. He has also developed a clear set of tools which can help us to bring about transformation and healing in each area.

When we know the right issues and we are using the right tool, transformation comes more quickly and is much longer lasting.

In Podcast #350 I share how to apply everything Rick and I talk about in your daily tapping practice.

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Guest: Rick Hanson, Ph.D.

Contact: web @ rickhanson.net; Just One Thing Newsletter; facebook @ Buddha's Brain ; podcast @ Being Well Podcast

About: Rick Hanson, Ph.D.,is a psychologist, Senior Fellow of the Greater Good Science Center at UC Berkeley, and New York Times best-selling author. His books are available in 28 languages and include Resilient, Hardwiring Happiness,Buddha’s Brain,Just One Thing, and Mother Nurture.

A summa cum laude graduate of UCLA and founder of the Wellspring Institute for Neuroscience and Contemplative Wisdom, he’s been an invited speaker at Oxford, Stanford, Harvard, and other major universities, and taught in meditation centers worldwide. In 2016 he gave a keynote address at the annual meeting of the American Psychological Association.

Pod #348: Raising Happy Healthy Kids with EFT w/ Carrie Contey, Ph.D.

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Parenting can often feel like a struggle. As a parent you have a clear idea of what needs to be done over the course of day. There are meals to be planned and served, errands to be run, getting the kids to and from school, homework to be done, and all of the other tasks that fill daily life.

Kids, on the other hand, lack the same sense of priorities or an understanding of the necessity of this structure, which means it can feel like hard work for their parents just to get through the day.

This week I have a conversation with parenting specialist Carrie Contey about how parents can manage the demands of daily life while still helping their kids to grow in a happy and healthy way.

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Carrie ConteyGuest: Carrie Contey, Ph.D.

Contact: web @ carriecontey.com; email @ hello@carriecontey.com; Instagram @carrieconteyphd

About: Carrie Contey, Ph.D., is an internationally recognized coach, author, speaker and educator. Her work offers a new perspective on human development, parenting and family life. She guides, supports and inspires her clients to live with wide-open and courageous hearts so they can approach family life with skill and spaciousness.

Carrie received her doctorate in clinical psychology with an emphasis on prenatal and perinatal psychology and is masterful at synthesizing and articulating the science, psychology and spirituality of humanhood. She is the creator of Evolve, a year-long “personal growth through parenting” program which ran from 2011-2017. She is also the co-founder of the Slow Family Living movement and the co-author of CALMS: A Guide To Soothing Your Baby.

Pod #347: Intention Based Tapping w/ Steve Wells

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One of the best parts about tapping is how easily it can be combined with other tools and modalities. Recently, Steve Wells has been working using the power of intention combined with tapping to achieve deeper healing and longer lasting results.

The idea of intention in this context is not about the outcome we desire (for example “my intention is to be confident speaking in public”) but instead holding specific intentions about the healing process.

Steve calls his new approach Intention-based Energy Process (IEP) or Intention Tapping for short. In the conversation Steve shares how he came to use intention in this way, as well as teaching you the entire process.

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Note: For the first time since 2013 Steve is running live training in North America. There is a 3-hour workshop on April 4th and three days of advanced training from April 5th – 7th in Toronto. Here are details

If you can't make it to Toronto in April, Steve also offers a number of online training opportunities

Guest: Steve Wells

Contact: web @ EFTDownunder.com; email @ admin@eftdownunder.com; More interviews with Steve @ TappingQ&A

About Steve: Steve Wells is an international leadership coach and peak performance consultant based in Perth, Western Australia. He helps people to overcome the hidden blocks to achieving their goals and getting what they really want from life.

Steve was one of the first to apply tapping to performance enhancement work with elite athletes and to take tapping to the corporate environment. He regularly teaches and consults worldwide with elite sport and business achievers to improve their performance and enhance the performance of their teams.

Steve is co-creator (with Dr David Lake) of the user-friendly tapping approach Simple Energy Techniques (SET) and the unique advanced Energy-based approach Provocative Energy Techniques (PET). He has helped thousands of people through his worldwide personal development and professional training workshops.

Steve is on the faculty of the Curtin University Centre for Entrepreneurship, where he presents to business owners and senior leaders on peak performance and resilience. He is also on the faculty of the Emotional Intelligence Institute. He is co-author of four books, including Enjoy Emotional Freedom.

Steve's programs and presentations are always inspiring, engaging and filled with powerful practical strategies you can use immediately to get better results – with less stress.

Here are all the interviews that I have done with Steve:

Pod #346: Improving Your Performance With EFT w/ Dr. Tom Hanson, PhD

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Making mistakes can be frustrating, but it is even more frustrating when you mess something that you know you can do, have done before, but right at the moment when it's most important to get right, you mess up.

Athletes deal with this problem all of the time. There are actions that they can do perfectly over and over again in practice, but are unable to perform to the best of their ability when they get into a game setting.

We may not be professional sportspeople, but the same can happen with any of the tasks we perform. It is easy to let the pressure of the moment get the better of us.

In this week's podcast I have a conversation with performance coach Dr. Tom Hanson. Over the last three decades Tom has worked with countless professional athletes and top-level collegiate athletes.

Where performance is concerned it doesn't matter if you are in a stadium in front of tens of thousands of people, or you are making a small presentation to your co-workers, if you are worried about the outcome, your nerves can be hard to conquer.

This also means that the tools and techniques that Tom uses with top level athletes will also help us when we need to perform at our best.

In this conversation we talk about how tapping can be used to:

  • Remove the one part that is making it harder
  • How to find the right focus
  • How to let go of the wrong focus
  • How to deal with extreme nerves – often called the yips in sports

No matter what level or what setting you need to perform in, Tom will show how you how to use simple tapping to get the most out of each opportunity.

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Guest: Dr. Tom Hanson, PhD

Contact: email @ DrTomHanson@gmail.com; web @ HeadsUpPerformance.com; web @ PlayBigBaseball.com; web @  HeadsUpBaseball2.com; phone @ 813-453-3467

About Tom: CEO of Heads-Up Performance, Inc., Tom is a certified professional coach with over 30 years of experience in coaching, speaking and training. He earned his doctorate in sport psychology from the University of Virginia and uses his expertise in human performance to evoke excellence in professional athletes, CEOs and other corporate performers.

Formerly a tenured professor and head baseball coach, Hanson co-authored the books Heads-Up Baseball and Heads-Up Baseball 2.0, which have sold over 200,000 copies and have been used by many Major League Baseball, top college and high school teams. Labeled the bible of mental toughness in baseball by Collegiate Baseball, the books have been translated into several languages. His book, PLAY BIG: Mental Toughness Secrets that Take Baseball Players to the Next Level is widely used by teams at all levels of play.

For the last 20 years he has helped executives and entrepreneurs bring their game to work each day and coached them on how to be successful on the many days they aren't at their best. His clients are often surprised to learn that, like an effortless golf drive that rockets the ball long and straight, they can produce better results by learning to lead with effortless power.

Pod #345: EFT For Recognizing That Just Because There Are Problems, Doesn’t Mean They Are Your Problems (Pro-You Choices Part 4)

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Note: To get 2019 off on the right foot, we're going to end 2018 and begin the new year with a four-part series on how to make what I call “pro-you choices”. These are choices that are all about taking care of yourself. This is Part 4 of 4. You can find all four parts in the Pro-You Choices Series.

I can't imagine not being a thoughtful, kind person in the world. I am glad that at least some of the time I am able to respond to other people's wants, needs, and suffering.

But one of the consequences of being known to be thoughtful is that other people often come for help. In extreme cases, they aren't looking for help, they just want us to solve their problems.

At some point it can become too much and just because someone we love it having a hard time, it doesn't mean we are responsible for solving all their problems.

We can be thoughtful, helpful, and caring without taking on everyone's burdens. In this week's audio I have a story about how I was able to change the dynamics of a relationship where I had let a boundary down to the point that it was making my life difficult.

There is also a tap-along that will make it easier for you to be the kind and thoughtful person that you are without having to take care of every burden of everyone you know. (A printable tapping script can be found below the audio.)

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I know the people around me struggle…Because everybody struggles…Sometimes I can be helpful to the people around me…Because I don't want to see them suffer…And I don't want to see them struggle…And there are also times in which it is not best for me to be helpful…There are times when it is not best for the relationship for me to swoop in and solve the problem…And when that is the case…There is a part of me that feels bad for not being helpful…There's a part of me that feels bad when I see other people struggle…But I recognize that I am not able to solve everyone's problems all the time…I can't be in a situation where I take responsibility for other people's lives…Even though there's a part of me that feels like I need to help…I recognize the fact that sometimes that is not useful in the long term…I recognize the fact that is not healthy in the long term…It is possible for me to be responsible to my loved ones without being responsible for my loved ones…It is possible for me to be helpful without helping right away all the time…It is good for me to create boundaries…It is healthy for me to create boundaries…And it is necessary for me to create boundaries…I can be kind…I can be thoughtful…I can be helpful…I can be loving…And not take on the responsibility of everyone else's problem…There's a part of me that struggles with finding this balance…It is important that I find the balance…Creating boundaries isn't being mean…Creating boundaries isn't thoughtless…Creating boundaries isn't heartless…Creating healthy boundaries is a necessity for me…I give myself permission to create boundaries…I give myself permission to learn how to create boundaries and to stick to them.