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Pod #243: EFT For When We Are Waiting On Others To Make A Choice

October 19, 2016 By Gene Monterastelli 2 Comments

eft-for-when-you-are-waiting-on-others-to-chooseThere is so much of the world that we do not control. We are surrounded by people, just like us, who are making choices and exercising their free will.

In many ways, we can’t escape the impact of other people’s choices, especially when we are collaborating with others.

That means we often have to wait on someone else to make a choice so that we can move forward with what we want to do. We can be worried that they will make a choice that we don’t like OR we can feel stuck because we can’t do anything until they choose.

Here is a simple tap-along to find peace while waiting on others to choose.

A full transcript of the tap-along can be found below the player.

I recognize the fact that one of the reasons I am so frustrated is because I have a clear vision of what I want…it’s something I am super excited about and I know how good it’s going to be…I know how it’s going to make my life better…the problem is I can’t do it on my own…I need someone else to say yes…I’m glad I have someone I can work with…I’m glad I have someone I might be able to go through this with because it is going to be so much better because they are at my side…I know it is something that is impossible for me to do on my own…but it is really hard waiting for them to say yes because I want this so badly…if they wanted it like I want it then they already would have said yes…the fact that they haven’t said yes feels like a judgement…feels like they’re saying I’m not worthy…feels like they might want to do it but with someone else…it feels as if my desires aren’t important…it feels as if my wants aren’t important…I can understand that other people have choice…I’m glad other people have choice…I only want them to do what is right for them but I also recognize the fact it is hard waiting…I give myself permission to know that them not answering is not a judgement on me…them not answering is not a rejection…them not answering is simply them thinking…making sure it is the right fit for them …I’m glad they’re being thoughtful…I can appreciate that they’re being deliberate…this is how it fits into their life…it’s not a judgment of me…even if this doesn’t work out…no matter how great this is…this is not my last opportunity…this is not my last chance…this is not my only chance…I can and will have more opportunities…I give myself permission to be open to knowing that if I keep taking deliberate action good will come

Related articles and podcasts:

  1. You Have No Choice! Just Give-Up Right Now!
  2. When We Keep Making The Same Poor Choice
  3. Tapping To Let Go Of Pleasing Others (w/ tapping script)
  4. Being able to say “No.”
  5. Don’t Know How To Forgive Myself

Filed Under: Podcast, Tap Along Tagged With: Waiting, Worry

Comments

  1. Caron Harris says

    October 20, 2016 at 11:17 am

    This is a great idea! I have a situation right now where my dojo needs to move and for whatever reason it just hasn’t happened yet. It’s caused me a lot of frustration and fear it won’t happen. Not hearing does make a person a little crazy, so this kind of tapping is very useful for me right now. I changed the words slightly as we went along, and it’s something I will do again! Thanks! Have fun in Hawaii!

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  2. Cheryl says

    October 21, 2016 at 11:02 am

    Thank you for this, Gene! it is exactly what I need in my life right now….

    Thank you

    Kind regards

    Reply

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