Tapping to see mistakes as part of learning
Tapping to choose courage instead of avoidance
Tapping to know I don’t have to earn love
Tapping to break free from the fear of rejection
Tapping to believe that healing is possible for me
Tapping to embrace progress, not perfection
Pod #685: Why your subconscious mind fights gratitude tapping
One of the most common teachings in healing and personal transformation is the value and importance of gratitude.
So much so that the idea of establishing a “gratitude practice” for yourself feels commonplace.
The power of experiencing thankfulness and gratitude is unquestionably powerful. It can impact the way we feel in the moment and it can transform the way we act.
The problem is that most people don't talk about the dark side of practicing gratitude. To be clear, I am not saying there is an issue with the feeling of gratitude, but instead that establishing a regular gratitude practice can bring up emotional distress that gets in the way of healing and transformation.
This week in the podcast I share the hidden pitfalls of a gratitude practice and how you can move yours from feeling like a chore to something that nurtures your healing and growth.
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Tapping to move forward without needing every answer
Tapping to release the fear of outgrowing others
Tapping to calm the fear of change
Tapping to stop carrying other people’s expectations
Tapping to release the fear of being judged
Tapping for Peace in Time of Turmoil
Below you will find 8 tap-along audios and tapping scripts to help you in times of turmoil in the world.
- 1: Tapping to feel and release the shock of violence without dissociation (mp3)
- 2: Tapping to soften the rage that burns through my chest (mp3)
- 3: Tapping to hold my grief when it feels too deep for words (mp3)
- 4: Tapping to stay present with fear without panicking (mp3)
- 5: Tapping to transform outrage into clarity and purpose (mp3)
- 6: Tapping to hold the pain of watching others suffer without shutting down (mp3)
- 7: Tapping to ground and protect my nervous system amid crisis (mp3)
- 8: Tapping to hold the fire of righteous anger without burning out (mp3)
- Download tapping scripts of all eight tap-along (pdf)
9 more tap-along audios and tapping scripts created for our loved ones in Minnesota, but you will find useful as well
- Tapping to stay present with pain without being overwhelmed (mp3)
- Tapping to soften the shock of witnessing state violence (mp3)
- Tapping to process the fear of living under constant threat (mp3)
- Tapping to hold the heartache of seeing our community hurt (mp3)
- Tapping for when all I feel is overwhelmed (mp3)
- Tapping for living with ongoing fear (mp3)
- Kids – Tapping when the world feels scary and I don’t know what to do (mp3)
- Kids – Tapping to feel safe in my body when I’m afraid (mp3)
- Kids – Tapping to calm the worry that won’t go away (mp3)
- Download tapping scripts for all nine tap-alongs (pdf)
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In March of 2025 I hosted a livestream focused on tapping for peace in the world.
Tapping to let go of regret I’ve been carrying
Tapping to turn self criticism into self compassion
Pod #684: The one question you MUST ask before you start a round of tapping
One of the most common reasons people do not tap more is because they don't know where to start. Feeling uncertain produces a subconscious hesitancy because our subconscious is worried that we will waste time and energy going in the wrong direction.
This isn't a conscious thought, but a background resistance that creates two problems.
First, we don't tap as often as we would like. Second, we then beat ourselves up for not tapping because there is no clear and obvious reason why we aren't tapping.
This week in the podcast I share with you a simple two-step process that will take you less than 45 seconds. Try it out to get more out of each round of tapping and to help you to tap more.
The process will:
- create focus for the round of tapping
- provide guidance on what to tap on next
- show you when you are done
- guide you in planning for future tapping rounds
This is a transformative process and I feel confident that once you see its power, you will use it every time you tap in the future.
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