Many of our beliefs are held at a subconscious level and some of them do not serve us well. They may be inaccurate in the way we describe ourselves, our relationships, and the world and this inaccuracy causes us problems in daily life because subconsciously we believe them to be true.
Once we identify these beliefs we can then use tapping to transform them into a clearer reflection of the way the world works.
Beliefs that have been passed on to us by our loved ones are particularly hard to change. This is because part of us fears that if we let go of the belief, we will also be letting go of the person who gave it to us.
Logically we know this isn’t the case, but because this perception exists at a subconscious level it can slow or even halt our progress.
This week I have a simple process you can use to transform the beliefs that have been passed on by others, with a tap-along section at the end.
In the audio I also share with you how you can get a free written version of this tool, the tapping script, and 13 other great tapping tools.
Here is the tapping script that you are going to use as part four of this process. In the audio above, not only do I share the first 3 steps.
I know that I am approaching this just like the people in my life…and I know that approach is not serving me…but there is a part of me that doesn’t want to let this belief go…there is a part of me that believes that if I let this belief go then I am letting them go…that I am saying that they are wrong…I am saying that I don’t love them…I am saying that I am not grateful for what they have done for me…but I know this is not true…I can let go beliefs that they had without letting go of them…I can know that I love them and that they love me and not hold everything they said or did as true…They were imperfect…and it is OK to say that they were and are imperfect…and there are many beliefs that served them in a time and place that don’t serve me…they want what is best for me…and they might think that one way is right…but even when they want things for me that aren’t perfect for me…they do this because they want what is best for me…I can do what is best for me and love my parents…I can do what is best for me and appreciate everything they have done for me…I can do what is best for me and keep the relationship strong…letting go of something they have given me is not the same as letting them go.
Caron Harris says
Big thumbs up! Thanks so much, very helpful indeed!