In my client sessions and even in my personal tapping I have noticed an interesting internal conflict. On the one hand we want to be seen, noticed, and validated. On the other, there is a part of us wanting to go through the world unseen and unnoticed, because if we are seen we can be judged.
In this interview I talk with Rue Hass about this dichotomy. We look at what it means to be invisible, how we end up being invisible, and how it is possible to be invisible to our own selves. We also talk about how we can use EFT to become our more authentic selves which makes being invisible less of an issue.
Rue Hass |
Guest: Rue Hass
Contact Info: IntuitiveMentoring.com, rue (at) intuitivementoring (dot) com
How Rue describes herself: When I first meet a new client/customer/co-creative partner, I walk them through an interesting process of understanding their life as a story. It concludes with asking them to consider what they want their life to leave in the world as a legacy. How do they want the world to be a better place for their having been in it?
When I contemplate this in myself, and ask, “What do I want to focus on in this phase of my life, as a culmination of everything I have learned and gained?”, what emerges for me is the concept of “spiritual eldering.” This impulse finds expression in my work with individuals and local groups, inviting and assisting people and communities to move into a sense of the real transformative power of their spiritual Presence in the world.
I particularly like to work with young people, adolescents and young adults as a mentor/coach. I have always been drawn to the kind of kid who might find him/herself in trouble in school, academically or socially, but who on the inside is bright, sensitive, perceptive, intuitive, often artistic or athletic, deep hearted and imaginative, and who just doesn’t fit the norm. I want to make it easier for these young people to find their place in the world. I think they are here to save it.
Make sure you check out all of Rue’s guest articles and podcasts on Tapping Q and A.
Mary says
Hello Gene, what a wonderful interview with Rue Hass… how compassionate and clear sighted she is to say that our life’s work, which could even take a lifetime sometimes, is to ‘find’ our real authentic selves, and do it in tiny little steps…
Who was it who said that — Our life’s purpose is to give birth to ourselves.
Patricia says
Thank you Gene and Rue for this interview.
And to Rue thanks for sharing the two great exercises to “slowly think more deeply into our hearts.”
Wonderful information!
Brendan says
What a brilliant discussion about “……..I completely love and accept myself” aspects of the Set-Up Phrase; and Rue’s idea of “Tiny Steps” Tapping and ” Life’s purpose” points practitioners in the right direction; your Summary at the end was very professional.
I found the first 5 mins had a severe”crackle” which made Rue’s diction very indistinct, and I feel it could force people to turn off the Podcast, which would be a great loss as your usual high quality recording suddenly appered then! ( perhaps a note re the quality of the first 5 mins. would assist listners?); I very much appreciate your great generosity, Gene, in preparing such interesting Pods, and I wish you continued success and good health.
Brendan
Val@holistic mindbody healing says
Thank you, Rue and Gene. I love the exercise of putting each voice in a different hand and letting one have its full say before going to the other voice. It honors each part of you, lets it be heard with full acceptance, and lets you gain wisdom from each part, even those you might have considered ‘negative’.