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Round up – What is one thing you wish your clients believed about healing process?

February 12, 2011 By Gene Monterastelli 1 Comment

There is a wealth of information in the tapping community. From time to time I ask practitioners I respect their thoughts on tapping, healing, and their work. (I “round up” their opinions.) This happens about once a month. You can read past round-ups.

If you would like to check out my answer to this question (and more) you can download “Recovering Self: A Healing Manifesto“. (For free w/o having to sign up for anything.)

What is one thing you wish your clients believed about healing process?

That they are not victims of the process, but they are in charge of it. Once they understand that they are an integral part of the underlying process, they then start to use it more effectively and extricate themselves from being victims.
Ted Robinson

That sometimes it isn’t a straight progression and every bump on the healing journey isn’t a failure but more knowledge and insight about the problem.
Alina Frank

I believe that any belief that doesn’t serve you can be changed. If I could get my clients (and the world) to believe that, I would be content with that as my life’s work.
Pamela Bruner

You are designed as a divine being that has the ability to constantly renew themselves. Just like a wound on your skin, this is the regenerative process that occurs naturally, you want it or not.

Emotional wounds will not heal if they are not allowed to through remembrance of these with resentment, anger, fear and hate. If you inundate your soul with Love and forgiveness you will heal. Remember an emotion is not a fact,.. you can let it go.
Till Schilling

Don’t judge the shift by the drama!

For whatever reason, some clients believe that they need a massive cathartic experience with lots of drama to change and heal. Yet, in the hands of a skilled practitioner, healing can be gentle, subtle and complete.
Rod Sherwin

That is worth taking time of your busy day to spend on healing. Even if you don’t feel like it (or should I say ESPECIALLY when you don’t feel like it). The longer you put it off, the longer you will feel unhealthy, unhappy or unfulfilled and there is absolutely no need for you to feel these negative emotions – you can heal. But none of the techniques will work unless you do them (or have sessions with a practitioner).
Mel

I wish they believed that it can be fun. It doesn’t have to be deadly serious and earnestly heartfelt all the time. Humor is so healing in itself, and to mix it into any healing process is a total blessing. I have found that it really speeds things up. It goes against the common belief that unless the healing is a struggle, it’s not worth much. I wished they believed that the healing process can feel good — because it most definitely can.
Janet Hilts

How would you answer this questions? Let us know!

Related articles and podcasts:

  1. Round Up – What is one thing you wish your clients believed about themselves?
  2. Round Up – What is something you have changed your mind about when it comes to healing, working with clients, or your own transformation process?
  3. Round up – What lessons have you learned about healing from a client?
  4. Round Up – If you were to start your own healing journey over again what would you do differently?
  5. My Favorite Thing My Clients Say During a Session & How You Can Use It To Accelerate Your Healing

Filed Under: Q&A Tagged With: Alina Frank, Guest Author, Janet Hilts, Lasting Healing, Mel Trudgett, Pamela Bruner, Rod Sherwin, Round Up, Ted Robinson

Comments

  1. Andy Hunt | Practical Wellbeing says

    January 2, 2012 at 3:17 am

    I would add that the therapist does something with you not to you.

    A lot of clients have the expectation that you have a magic wand and while they sit quietly you will wave the magic wand, say the spell (in dodgy Latin, just like Harry Potter) and everything will be better.

    In fact, everyone has to join in with their own healing. The therapist may lead the way but the client has to make the journey.

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