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		<title>TapAlong #31A: It Doesn’t Always Have To Be Hard</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Feb 2012 11:00:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There is a very American ethic that says that if something is worth having it is worth working for.  There is great honor in working hard so that you are able to say you "deserve" what you received.  I have nothing against hard work, but it doesn’t have to be hard.  I take flights because it is much easier than getting there in a covered wagon.  I use my stove because it is easier than cooking over a campfire.  I shop for food because it is easier than farming.

We often feel bad about taking the easy way out.  There is nothing wrong with having things come to us easily.  We are worthy of things being easy. 

Here is a great little tap along to help you to be easy with your self.]]></description>
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		<title>TapAlong #30A: Being Judgmental Of Others</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Jan 2012 11:00:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<img src="http://tappingqanda.com/image/post/tapalong5.jpg" alt="" width="" class="frame_right">Wayne Dyer said, “When you judge another, you do not define them, you define yourself.”

I am much more judgment of others than I would like to admit. I think I am a kind person.  I think I give others the benefit of the doubt.  But there are time that I quickly judge others.  I don’t do this because of who they are, but because of who I am.  Often when I am judging others it is because they are reminding of something in myself that I don’t like about myself.  I don’t like to be judged and I am going to work to not judge.

Here is a short tap along to help us to be less judgmental of other.]]></description>
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		<title>TapAlong # 29A: I Don&#8217;t Have To Be Perfect</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Jan 2012 11:00:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<img src="http://tappingqanda.com/image/post/tapalong4.jpg" alt="" width="" class="frame_right">It is great that we spend time naming what we want our life to look like.  It is wonderful that we create plans for how we are going to get it.

But it is not going to happen the way we planned.  It’s just not.  There are unexpected things coming.  There are details we are going to miss.  There are going to be days where we just choose to watch TV instead of doing what we need to do to move forward.

And that is ok.

I am not saying we don’t need to try, but it is okay if we are not perfect.  It is good for us to be easy with ourselves when it comes to not being perfect.  If we beat ourselves up too much about not being perfect we will make it so we don’t even want to try.  

Be easy with yourself.  This short tap along audio with help you do just that...Be easy with yourself.]]></description>
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		<title>TapAlong #28A: Being Brave When Overwhelmed Or Tired</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Jan 2012 11:00:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<img src="http://tappingqanda.com/image/post/tapalong3.jpg" alt="" width="" class="frame_right">There are times when we just don’t want to step up.  It could be because we have nothing left or it could be because we don’t think we can.  

Woody Allen is famously quoted as saying "Ninety percent of life is just showing up."  Often times all it takes is up getting moving and started.  It doesn’t have to be perfect.  Most of the time it doesn’t even have to be good.  Just starting is enough.  It gets the ball rolling, it get the juices flowing, and it gets us heading in the right direction. 

Here is a short tap along audio when you are feeling stuck and can't move forward.]]></description>
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		<title>TapAlong #27A: Being Who You Are &#8211; AKA Not Needing To Fit In</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Jan 2012 11:00:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<img src="http://tappingqanda.com/image/post/tapalong2.jpg" alt="" width="" class="frame_right">There are times where it is very hard to be who we want to be because it goes against what others are doing or what others say they expect of us.  Here is a short tap along audio to help you feel comfortable inside your own skin and your choices. ]]></description>
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		<title>TapAlong #26A: Saying &#8220;I am sorry.&#8221;</title>
		<link>http://tappingqanda.com/2011/12/tapalong-26a-saying-i-am-sorry/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Dec 2011 11:20:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<img src="http://tappingqanda.com/image/post/tapalong1.jpg" alt="" width="" class="frame_right">
Saying "I'm sorry" is one of the hardest things to do.  We have to admit that we have been wrong.  We have to admit that we let others down.  As hard as saying "I'm sorry" is needs to be done.  For our own healing, for those we have hurt, and to help repair our relationships.  Here is a quick TapAlong audio to help you be able to say "I'm sorry".]]></description>
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		<title>TapAlong #25A: Please See How Much I Am Putting Myself Last!</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Dec 2011 11:00:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<img src="http://tappingqanda.com/image/post/tapalong5.jpg" alt="" width="" class="frame_right">
Sometimes we can spend so much time and energy taking care of others that we can lose ourselves in the effort.  When can get to the place where our identity gets wrapped up in taking care of others.  This can be a dangerous way to define ourselves.  Here is a short tap along audio to help you see yourself for who you are, not for what you do for others.]]></description>
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		<title>TapAlong #24A: Worthy Of Love</title>
		<link>http://tappingqanda.com/2011/12/tapalong-24a-worthy-of-love/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Dec 2011 11:00:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<img src="http://tappingqanda.com/image/post/tapalong4.jpg" alt="" width="" class="frame_right">
One of the hardest phrases for my clients to say is, "I love and accept myself."  (And it can be really hard from me sometimes as well.)  There is a feeling of skin crawling that goes along with that phrase.  Being able to love our selves is at the heart of healing and transformation.  When we love ourselves we are able to be easy with our selves and be easy with the process of healing.
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		<title>Tap Along #23A: You Are Worth A Better/Easier Life</title>
		<link>http://tappingqanda.com/2011/12/tap-along-you-are-worth-a-bettereasier-life/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Dec 2011 11:00:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<img src="http://tappingqanda.com/image/post/tapalong3.jpg" alt="" width="" class="frame_left">
Often times we don't feel comfortable making our own life easier. We think:  Others have it so hard.  We should have to work for a good life.  It is only worth something if we struggle for it.  I have wasted good chances before I would I get easy now?

When we are able to recognize that we are worthy of a better life then we can move to a place where we can start working towards a better life.  As long as we think it is something we are not worthy of then we are never going to move forward.
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		<title>TapAlong #22A: Unconditional Love</title>
		<link>http://tappingqanda.com/2011/11/tapalong-unconditional-love/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Nov 2011 08:03:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<img src="http://tappingqanda.com/image/post/tapalong2.jpg" alt="" width="" class="frame_right">
It is fun to watch people intact with a new born.  Once they get over their fear of dropping the child everyone just lights up.  For some reason we are able to see the goodness in the innocents of the child and we can offer unconditional love very easily.

The idea for this TapAlong can to me while I was doing an interview Brad Yates.  Right after I idea hit me I shared it with Brad and he said that he had done the exact thing with his clients before.   Here is a great little TapAlong that I hope will help you to experience unconditional love.
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		<title>TapAlong #21A: Mediocrity and Greatness</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Nov 2011 11:00:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<img src="http://tappingqanda.com/image/post/tapalong1.jpg" alt="" width="" class="frame_left">
Mediocrity asks "Why?" with hesitation. Greatness asks "Why not?" with expectation. - @<a href=http://twitter.com/TheSingleWoman>TheSingleWoman</a>

One of the biggest (and most important) shifts we can make is moving from asking "why?" to asking "why not?"  When we do this we are moving from thinking about the place we are stuck and moving to what we can become.  This is a powerful transformation.  Even when we are not moving towards something that is new and better by simply looking at what is possible we feel like we are moving forward.]]></description>
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		<title>TapAlong #20A: Trusting When Doors Close and When We Hear NO</title>
		<link>http://tappingqanda.com/2011/11/tapalong-20a-trusting-when-doors-close-and-when-we-hear-no/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Nov 2011 11:00:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There is a lovely (and cheesy) song from my youth by Garth Brooks called "Unanswered Prayers."  The basic premise of the song is the protagonist runs into his teenage girlfriend as an adult.  He remembers that as a teen the only thing he prayed for was that he would marry his sweet heart.  With the wisdom of age he realize that it turned out for the best that God didn't answer his prayer....leading the chorus "Sometimes I thank God for unanswered prayers..."]]></description>
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		<title>TapAlong #19A: Taking Care Of Yourself AND Not Making It a Chore</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Nov 2011 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There are times when we sit down to tap that we have a very clear plan of what issues we want to go after.  There is either a specific wound to heal or there is a particular goal to achieve.  Other times we just need to make time for ourselves because it is good we are taking the time to care for ourselves, even if there isn't something specific we need to take care of.]]></description>
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		<title>TapAlong #18A: Feeling The Way We Feel</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Oct 2011 10:00:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<em>"Never apologize for saying what you feel, because that's like saying. 'Sorry for being real'"</em> @<a href=http://twitter.com/livetorque>livetorque</a>
 
Sometimes it is very difficult very difficult to share how we feel about something because we know that others are going to react to our feelings in a negative way.  When this happens we can feel bad for feeling the way we do and we can feel bad for what we perceive is hurting someone else.  Our feelings are our truth.  We feel the way we do.  We can choose to change these feelings and heal these feelings, but they are what they are.  We never have to apologize for how we feel.  There are choices we make in response to these feeling that aren't the best for others and ourselves.  We need to be comfortable enough with ourselves to know how we feel because that is our truth in the moment.]]></description>
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		<title>TapAlong #17A: What would you choose for today?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Oct 2011 10:00:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sometimes all we need to do is know what we want to get.  By naming it we start to see the path to what we want.  It is a great way to start the day or the week by knowing what you want.  If we tap while naming what we want, we can start to clear the resistance to those things.]]></description>
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		<title>TapAlong #16A Dealing With Shame And Blame For Past Choices</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Oct 2011 16:48:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Shame is a really interesting emotion.  It is something that causes us to recoil inside of our selves.  It wants us to hide our past and our present.  Even with all of these negative outcomes it is rooted in a good place.  Our shame wants us to have done better and it wants us to do better.  The problem is it prevents us from moving forward because it is trying to keep us safe from making the same mistake again or it feels that we have so clearly messed up that it doesn't think we deserve to move forward.  Because of this it can be very crippling.  But, we don't have to stay stuck in shame. ]]></description>
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		<title>Tapping To The Lessons I Learned While Tapping</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Oct 2011 10:00:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<img src="http://tappingqanda.com/image/post/learn.jpg" alt="" width="" class="frame_left">When I am tapping I like to write down the insights I have while tapping.  Sometimes they are things I already know (and have know forever) and other times they are completely new insights.  I might only get one or two of these insights when I sit down to tap, but when I collect them over time I end up with a lots of wisdom that I need to here.]]></description>
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		<title>TapAlong #15A Accepting Compliments</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Oct 2011 10:34:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[One of the things I have struggled with over the years is accepting compliments.  They made me feel uncomfortable.  They made me feel judged.  They made me feel like I needed to point out the things that were wrong with me.  Over time I have learned that it is okay to take a compliment.  It gives me a chance to recognize that I am good at something.  It gives me a chance to recognize that others also see the things I do well.  ]]></description>
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		<title>Tapping To Beauty To Open Your Heart</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Oct 2011 10:00:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<img src="http://tappingqanda.com/image/post/humm.png" alt="" width="" class="frame_center">The world we live in is full of amazingly beautiful things.  Many of them we miss (or at least I miss) because we are wrapped up in our todo list.  When we take the time to just look at beauty, bathe in beauty, and absorbe beauty it touches us and tunes us into our emotional core.  If we combine beauty with tapping we can transform our heart.  Here is an easy example...]]></description>
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		<title>Tapping For Inspiration &amp; Creativity By Steve Jobs</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Oct 2011 10:00:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<img src="http://tappingqanda.com/image/post/stevejobs.jpg" alt="" width="" class="frame_right">As I am sure you are aware last week Steve Jobs died.  He was a galvanizing figure to say the least.  He was a thought leader and he demanded a lot of himself (and his employes).  I always enjoyed his interviews and speeches because there was always nugests of hope, inspiration and challenge.  Here are some of my favorite Steve Jobs quote.  

Are you looking for a great way to start your day on a creative inspired foot?  Then just read these and tap along.]]></description>
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		<title>TapAlong #14A: Taking Risks</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Oct 2011 10:29:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA["I am always doing that which I cannot do, in order that I may learn how to do it." - Pablo Picasso

Trying new things can be hard.  It requires us to put ourselves at risk.  It requires up to face the fact that we don't know everything.  We know intellectually that there are many things we have tried in the past that we didn't know how to do.  Some of them worked out right away while others took time for us to learn.  When we recognize that it is okay for us to try new things and that it is okay to not be perfect during the learning process it makes it easier for us to try new and different things.
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		<title>TapAlong #13A: It Is A Great Day To Be Alive</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Sep 2011 10:24:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today is a perfect day.  That does not mean that everything is going to be perfect today. That doesn't mean that everything is going to work out the way we want.  But there is no other day like today.  It is completely unique, even if we are doing things that we have done many times before.  This is not some naive way of looking at the real challenges of the day, but it is simply an acknowledgement that today is going to be something special.]]></description>
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		<title>TapAlong #12A: Seeking Attention</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Sep 2011 10:20:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA["It is healthier to recognize we are desperate for attention than to deny we are. " R. Hudson

We all want attention.  We want attention from our loved ones.  We want attention from new friends.  We want attention from people in power.  It is okay that we want attention.  However, it becomes dangerous when we start to judge our worth and value off of how much attention we get from others.  In the end it is healthier to recognize we are desperate for attention than to deny we are.  When we recognize the types of attention we want and why we want them, then we are able to move to a healthier place.  If we deny that we are craving attention then we are going to keep acting out to get it, but doing so in a very subconscious way.  
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		<title>TapAlong #11A: Responding To Emotional Vampires</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Sep 2011 10:16:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[One of my favorite terms to introduce to clients is "emotional vampire." If they haven't heard the word before they normally chuckle knowing exactly what I am talking about.  An emotional vampire is someone who sucks us emotionally dry.  Sometimes we know it is coming.  Other times we are caught completely off guard.  They can suck us dry by belittling our dreams, complaining about how the world is against them, or just their general grumpiness can bring us down.   We when are aware of emotional vampires we have an opportunity to care for ourselves better.]]></description>
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		<title>TapAlong #10A:  The Things That Drive You Crazy Are Your Greatest Teachers. Finding Calmness Within The Storm.</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Sep 2011 10:10:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There is a reason that things drive us crazy.  It is because there is something in those moments that challenges the way we see ourselves and the world, or that challenges the way we would like to see ourselves in the world.  We can learn a great deal from these moments if we can take a step back and ask why we are being driven so crazy.  Even if we aren't able to do that in the moment, but reflect after the fact, then we can make great strides.]]></description>
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		<title>Using Unusual Sources To Find Tapping Scripts AKA Tapping To Move Forward</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Aug 2011 10:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<img src="http://tappingqanda.com/image/post/movies.jpg" alt="" width="" class="frame_right">Sometimes the prefect words to tap along to are found in unexpected places.  I love tapping along to poems, song lyrics, and even while looking at heart moving photos.  Here is a perfect example of a great place to find tapping words that will help transfrom your heart in to taking action.  Here is clips form 40 movies.  All the quotes are about seeing the world for what it is and helping you to step into action.  If you take the 7min run time of this clip reel and tap along to it, I promise it is going to move you, heal you, and get you motivated to go after the task you need to do today.]]></description>
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		<title>TapAlong #9A: Letting Go</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Aug 2011 10:10:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[“Perfection is achieved, not when there is nothing more to add, but when there is nothing left to take away.” - Antoine de Saint-Exupe ]]></description>
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		<title>TapAlong #8A: Looking at things in new ways</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Aug 2011 10:07:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sometimes we want to move forward but can't because we feel like we are taking a step too far.  We need to know that it is okay to push the envelope sometimes.

“Here’s to the crazy ones. The misfits. The rebels. The troublemakers. The round pegs in the square holes. The ones who see things differently. They’re not fond of rules. And they have no respect for the status quo. You can praise them, disagree with them, quote them, disbelieve them, glorify or vilify them. About the only thing you can’t do is ignore them. Because they change things. They invent. They imagine. They heal. They explore. They create. They inspire. They push the human race forward. Maybe they have to be crazy. How else can you stare at an empty canvas and see a work of art? Or sit in silence and hear a song that’s never been written? Or gaze at a red planet and see a laboratory on wheels? While some see them as the crazy ones, we see genius. Because the people who are crazy enough to think they can change the world, are the ones who do.”— Apple Commercial, 1997
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		<title>TapAlong #7A: Staying Focused</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Aug 2011 10:04:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA["The main thing is to keep the main thing the main thing."- Stephen Covey  
It is very easy for use to get distracted.  It feels like there are a million things pulling us in a million different directions.  It is good that we take a step back and reflect on what is really important and where our focus needs to be.  When we do this it is easier for us to stay focused.  
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		<title>TapAlong #6A: The crap I know is better than the crap I don’t know</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Aug 2011 10:00:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sometimes it is hard to move forward because we are worried about what might go wrong.  The situation we are in right now isn't perfect, but we know everything that isn't perfect and we know how to manage it.  There might be people who push our buttons, but we know how to deal with them.  There might be tasks that we hate doing, but we brace ourselves for those tasks and we just push ourselves through.  Even though this isn't perfect, we know how to deal with it.  In this predictable, familiar world, the future is known.  However, making changes brings the unknown.  We might get what we want, but we also might bring problems we are not ready for and problems we can't handle.  When considering making changes (even positive ones) part of us is willing to remain stuck with the problems that we can manage instead of trying to do something new for fear of something bad happening to us.]]></description>
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		<title>TapAlong #5A: Being Able To Love Unconditionally</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Aug 2011 09:15:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[We are told (and may even believe) that we need to love people unconditionally.  This can be a really hard thing because the people in our lives are flawed (just like we are).  They make poor choices and they sometimes hurt us.  Unconditional love does not mean that we approve of others’ choices and it doesn't mean we have to take whatever they give us.  Unconditional love is about recognizing the worth and value of others.  When we do this we are able to make the choice we want to make in creating ourselves to be who we want to be. (And yes . . . this is hard!)]]></description>
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		<title>TapAlong #4: Changing How We See Ourselves and the World</title>
		<link>http://tappingqanda.com/2011/07/changing-how-we-see-ourselves-and-the-world-tapalong-4/</link>
		<comments>http://tappingqanda.com/2011/07/changing-how-we-see-ourselves-and-the-world-tapalong-4/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jul 2011 12:13:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A few years ago I was on retreat with Russ Hudson.  At the beginning of the three days he said, "Who I think I am will die in this process.  What I lose is my illusions."  Many times the transformation process isn't about becoming something new, but instead it is about seeing ourselves in new ways.  It is possible for us to get caught up in an old image of ourselves when we should see ourselves in new ways.  This is also true about how we perceive our situation.  It is possible for the world around us to have changed in dramatic ways and we can still be operating out of an outdated understanding.  A perfect example is when many generations of a family get together.  Even as fully formed adults, people quickly fall back into old roles and patterns.  As always, it is much easier to see this in others than it is in our own lives.]]></description>
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		<title>TapAlong #3: Dreaming + Work = Progress and Transformation</title>
		<link>http://tappingqanda.com/2011/07/dreaming-work-progress-and-transformation-tapalong-1/</link>
		<comments>http://tappingqanda.com/2011/07/dreaming-work-progress-and-transformation-tapalong-1/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Jul 2011 09:07:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[“There are those who work all day. Those who dream all day. And those who spend an hour dreaming before setting to work to fulfill those dreams. Go into the third category because there’s virtually no competition.” Steven J. Ro"]]></description>
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		<title>TapAlong #2: Not Needing Others’ Permission To Change</title>
		<link>http://tappingqanda.com/2011/07/not-needing-others%e2%80%99-permission-to-change-tapalong-2/</link>
		<comments>http://tappingqanda.com/2011/07/not-needing-others%e2%80%99-permission-to-change-tapalong-2/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Jul 2011 09:58:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://tappingqanda.com/?p=3470</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[(Free TapAlong Audio) We are connected to many people in our lives.  Some of the connections are very close while others are not so close.  When we make choices we don't make them in a vacuum.  We know our choices impact other people.  Sometimes our choices are going to directly affect others with the outcome while other times it simply effects the way they see us.  Because we consider how others are going to think about us because of our choices, there are time we hesitate because we are not sure how others are going to react (or we fear the reaction is going to be negative).  On a subconscious level we won't act unless we feel we have the permission of those around us to go after our dream.   It feels a little odd to ask someone permission to chase our dreams, but it is important to note the places where we are holding ourselves back. ]]></description>
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		<title>TapAlong #1: Seeing Where We Are (AKA: Know What We Don’t Want)</title>
		<link>http://tappingqanda.com/2011/07/see-where-we-are-aka-know-what-we-dont-want/</link>
		<comments>http://tappingqanda.com/2011/07/see-where-we-are-aka-know-what-we-dont-want/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Jul 2011 11:53:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[(Free TapAlong Audio) Many times the first step in getting what we want is knowing what we don't want.  It can be hard to name the specific changes because we are stuck in what we don't want.  By naming what we don't want and naming how we can react differently to what we don’t want? is often the first step so that we can move to naming what we do want.]]></description>
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		<title>Avoiding Bitterness</title>
		<link>http://tappingqanda.com/2010/03/avoiding-bitterness/</link>
		<comments>http://tappingqanda.com/2010/03/avoiding-bitterness/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Mar 2010 15:59:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://tappingqanda.com/?p=2115</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Struggle can lead to bitterness.  Bitterness is the enemy of healing and transformation.  Here is a tap-along to help dealing with bitterness in the face of struggle.]]></description>
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		<title>Not Knowing Where To Begin/A Good Way To Start</title>
		<link>http://tappingqanda.com/2009/08/not-knowing-where-to-begina-good-way-to-start/</link>
		<comments>http://tappingqanda.com/2009/08/not-knowing-where-to-begina-good-way-to-start/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Aug 2009 13:02:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Recently I have been working with a number first time clients.  Many of them are very experienced with Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT/EvEFT) and have come to work with me because they are dealing with something that is much larger than the normal day to day issues they use tapping for.]]></description>
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		<title>Being able to say &#8220;No.&#8221;</title>
		<link>http://tappingqanda.com/2009/05/say-no/</link>
		<comments>http://tappingqanda.com/2009/05/say-no/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2009 20:13:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://tappingqanda.com/?p=1183</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Sometimes the hardest word to say is “no”. We want to be helpful. We want to give. We don’t want to be seen as selfish. We want to be asked again in the future. There are so many reasons to say “yes”. But there are also many good reasons to say “no”.]]></description>
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		<title>Sensitive Temperaments</title>
		<link>http://tappingqanda.com/2009/04/sensitive-temperaments/</link>
		<comments>http://tappingqanda.com/2009/04/sensitive-temperaments/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Apr 2009 00:29:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Guest Author</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.tappingqanda.com/?p=477</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Everyone in my life says that I am “way too sensitive” and it’s frustrating.  I love the fact that I feel so deeply, but I don’t like everyone thinking I am overreacting.  Is there something wrong with me?]]></description>
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		<title>EFT/Tapping For Parents with Autistic (ASD) and Special Needs Children</title>
		<link>http://tappingqanda.com/2009/04/efttapping-for-parents-with-autistic-asd-and-special-needs-children/</link>
		<comments>http://tappingqanda.com/2009/04/efttapping-for-parents-with-autistic-asd-and-special-needs-children/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Apr 2009 03:24:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.tappingqanda.com/?p=475</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I know EFT can be a very powerful tool to help with getting my emotions under control.  My daughter was just diagnosed as being on the autism spectrum and I am just a ball of emotions.  I don’t know where to start.  What can I tap on?]]></description>
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		<title>God&#8217;s Love</title>
		<link>http://tappingqanda.com/2009/03/gods-love/</link>
		<comments>http://tappingqanda.com/2009/03/gods-love/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Mar 2009 02:44:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.tappingqanda.com/?p=441</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[There are times when we feel like we have messed up to the point that not only have we let ourselves down, but we have also let God down.  In these times I have found Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT/EvEFT) a very helpful tool.]]></description>
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		<title>Sadness</title>
		<link>http://tappingqanda.com/2009/02/sadness/</link>
		<comments>http://tappingqanda.com/2009/02/sadness/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Feb 2009 23:47:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.tappingqanda.com/?p=439</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Sadness can be one of the hardest emotions to use Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT/EvEFT) for.  It just doesn’t do it justice to tap on the phrase, “I feel sad.”]]></description>
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		<title>Not Knowing What To Tap On</title>
		<link>http://tappingqanda.com/2009/02/not-knowing-what-to-tap-on/</link>
		<comments>http://tappingqanda.com/2009/02/not-knowing-what-to-tap-on/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Feb 2009 23:42:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.tappingqanda.com/?p=432</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[There are times when we know Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT/EvEFT), but we don’t know where to begin.  We are either faced with so many issues our mind jumps from one issue to another, or we have so much going on that we can’t seem to get a grip on any one issue.]]></description>
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		<title>Feeling Like You Are Backsliding</title>
		<link>http://tappingqanda.com/2009/02/feeling-like-you-are-backsliding/</link>
		<comments>http://tappingqanda.com/2009/02/feeling-like-you-are-backsliding/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Feb 2009 23:38:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Often when we do change work we feel like the deeper we dig into an issue the worse it gets.  It is almost as if we stir up issues that weren’t there before.  This can be frustrating and overwhelming.]]></description>
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		<title>Our Emotions Are Illogical And Make No Sense</title>
		<link>http://tappingqanda.com/2009/01/our-emotions-are-illogical-and-make-no-sense/</link>
		<comments>http://tappingqanda.com/2009/01/our-emotions-are-illogical-and-make-no-sense/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Jan 2009 23:34:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.tappingqanda.com/?p=424</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Sometimes the healing process is hampered by our logical mind.  We get to the point where we can name our issues, but they make no sense at all.  We can logically see how things are different from what our emotions believe.  This can be a very difficult point in the healing process because we realize that we can’t talk ourselves out of misguided or wrong emotional beliefs.  Because we can’t logic our way out of something, we don’t know where to turn and can feel helpless in the healing process.]]></description>
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		<title>Need To Know How We Got Here</title>
		<link>http://tappingqanda.com/2009/01/need-to-know-how-we-got-here/</link>
		<comments>http://tappingqanda.com/2009/01/need-to-know-how-we-got-here/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jan 2009 23:15:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[To work down a path of healing we need to take stock of where we are and what issues we would like to heal.  One of the questions that come to mind when we do this is, “How did I get here?”  This can become a consuming question, to the point that it distracts us from the healing process itself.]]></description>
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		<title>Overwhelmed By How Much Healing I Need</title>
		<link>http://tappingqanda.com/2009/01/overwhelmed-by-how-much-healing-i-need/</link>
		<comments>http://tappingqanda.com/2009/01/overwhelmed-by-how-much-healing-i-need/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jan 2009 23:10:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.tappingqanda.com/?p=407</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Beginning the healing process can be very overwhelming.  The moment we start investigating what is going on in our lives we become aware of many areas of healing that we had been blind to before.  This can be very frustrating and can leave us hopeless.]]></description>
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		<title>I Don&#8217;t Deserve Healing</title>
		<link>http://tappingqanda.com/2009/01/i-dont-deserve-healing/</link>
		<comments>http://tappingqanda.com/2009/01/i-dont-deserve-healing/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Jan 2009 23:05:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.tappingqanda.com/?p=400</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[One of the biggest struggles in our process of growing and changing is the fact that we don’t often believe that we deserve healing.]]></description>
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		<title>Peace (Personal and World)</title>
		<link>http://tappingqanda.com/2008/12/peace-personal-and-world/</link>
		<comments>http://tappingqanda.com/2008/12/peace-personal-and-world/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Dec 2008 22:58:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[During the holiday season we are re-reminded that it is important to give thanks for the peace in our lives, homes, and world.  We are also given the chance to consider the peace we long for.  Please take some time this week and tap on these phrase to help bring peace.]]></description>
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		<title>Tap Away Holiday Stress Audio</title>
		<link>http://tappingqanda.com/2008/12/tap-away-holiday-stress-audio/</link>
		<comments>http://tappingqanda.com/2008/12/tap-away-holiday-stress-audio/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Dec 2008 22:54:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[How can I use EFT to deal with holiday stress?]]></description>
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		<title>Not Sure How To Be Specific &#8211; AKA I Don&#8217;t know what to say (part 6)</title>
		<link>http://tappingqanda.com/2008/09/not-sure-how-to-be-specific-aka-i-dont-know-what-to-say-part-6/</link>
		<comments>http://tappingqanda.com/2008/09/not-sure-how-to-be-specific-aka-i-dont-know-what-to-say-part-6/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Sep 2008 22:28:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I know EFT is most effective when I am really specific about what I am tapping on, but I am really having a problem with that because there are so many emotions at once I don’t know where to start. One thought leads to the next that leads to the next. What do I do when I don’t know what to focus on because there is so much going on at once?]]></description>
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		<title>The Power of Color</title>
		<link>http://tappingqanda.com/2008/09/the-power-of-color-revisited/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Sep 2008 19:25:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Guest Author</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Catherine Poole]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.tappingqanda.com/?p=348</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[There are a number of healing traditions that use color as part of the healing process.  Is it possible to use these techniques or color in general in combination with EFT?]]></description>
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		<title>Getting Started</title>
		<link>http://tappingqanda.com/2008/09/getting-started/</link>
		<comments>http://tappingqanda.com/2008/09/getting-started/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Sep 2008 22:03:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.tappingqanda.com/?p=343</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I know EFT works because it has worked for me before. For some reason I just can’t get myself to sit down and do the tapping I want and need to do. What is my problem, and is there anything I can do about it?]]></description>
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		<title>Self Esteem Boost</title>
		<link>http://tappingqanda.com/2008/08/self-esteem-boost/</link>
		<comments>http://tappingqanda.com/2008/08/self-esteem-boost/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Aug 2008 21:15:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gene Monterastelli</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.tappingqanda.com/?p=278</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Is there a way I could use EFT for a little bit of a self-esteem boost?]]></description>
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