Comments on: Tapping On Someone Else’s Behavior http://tappingqanda.com/2008/10/tapping-on-someone-elses-behavior/ Answers to the most common (and uncommon) questions about using the tapping protocols to regain control of your health and well-being. Mon, 21 May 2012 17:38:00 +0000 hourly 1 By: Rod Sherwin http://tappingqanda.com/2008/10/tapping-on-someone-elses-behavior/comment-page-1/#comment-35 Rod Sherwin Sat, 09 May 2009 15:09:23 +0000 http://www.tappingqanda.com/?p=363#comment-35 When I notice this desire in myself to change someone else I tap on this first. Something like "Even though I want them to change, it's their behaviour that's wrong, not mine, ..." getting as self-righteous as I want. I might even go on a bit of a rant and rave about all the things they are doing wrong WHILE TAPPING to acknowledge my own feelings. After I have expressed myself, even if only to myself, then I will tap around accepting responsibility for my part in the pattern of the relationship and how I will react differently in future situations. When I notice this desire in myself to change someone else I tap on this first. Something like “Even though I want them to change, it’s their behaviour that’s wrong, not mine, …” getting as self-righteous as I want.

I might even go on a bit of a rant and rave about all the things they are doing wrong WHILE TAPPING to acknowledge my own feelings.

After I have expressed myself, even if only to myself, then I will tap around accepting responsibility for my part in the pattern of the relationship and how I will react differently in future situations.

]]> By: Jondi http://tappingqanda.com/2008/10/tapping-on-someone-elses-behavior/comment-page-1/#comment-33 Jondi Sat, 09 May 2009 15:07:34 +0000 http://www.tappingqanda.com/?p=363#comment-33 Hi, Gene, I think it was a good article, and a good reminder for all of us that sometimes just neutralizing our negative feelings in these situations is not enough - we DO have to take responsibility for our part in the dance. Thanks for the reminder. Hi, Gene, I think it was a good article, and a good reminder for all of us that sometimes just neutralizing our negative feelings in these situations is not enough – we DO have to take responsibility for our part in the dance. Thanks for the reminder.

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